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21 M Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:21am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay), Malay (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Didn't have one of those bodybuilder gym selfie pictures up before, but then I realized that many girls are pretty much "visual creatures" just like guys :P So since I've passed the first test, all that remains is to convince you that I'm a decent human being, so here goes:

Malaysian Chinese, certified emptyheaded prettyboy, I can swear in five different languages. Part time New Yorker, Chitown best town, NYC best... C? Fml.

Hair vermillion red. I juggle, I draw, I enjoy good food, Math major turned Economics major, Public Service Department scholar - I'm completing a BA at the University of Chicago. I know all the useless shit they never taught you and will never be relevant - I think smart is sexy, superficial is annoying. I despise the pretentious and I love surprises; Lady Gaga's Applause is currently my favorite song, I think Ke$ha is a genius- If I become famous one day, I really really hope this doesn't come back to haunt me :p

A. I like smart girls, and I take care to make the distinction between smart and act smart - always a turn-on :)

B. No, I'm not the random pakistani guy looking to marry and make 355235890 babies with you.

C. I think it's such a shame that older women don't usually date younger guys.
What I’m doing with my life
Giving zero fucks. I currently work at a management consulting firm downtown Kuala Lumpur.

During breaks, I try to travel - I walk the cathedrals of San Gimignano, the pavements of Paris, the boulevards of South Kensington; gypsies punch me in the arm because I refuse to buy their umbrellas - I like my kai kai-ing :)

On campus, I can be found fueling my diet soda addiction, writing a fair bit, making my art portfolio larger. Skill toys (yoyos diabolos juggling balls) take up a good portion of my life, as do, regrettably, long nights in the library.

Outside the countless nights I spend in the library:

1. I go out on dates, some from OkCupid, others not.

2. I write. Bad fanfictions(No you don't get to look!) and a mediocre blog( I have some pretentious poetry if you *really* want to see it. I wrote for The Malaysian Insider and The Chicago Maroon. As in, I have a column - If you'd like to see it, I'll give you the link.

3. I design, both vector art and pen drawings. Again, ask if you want to see my work, but if you check this page, I might have a deviantArt link up sometime during summer.

4. I act.

5. I cook, as my Instagram feed suggests. Usually low-carb and other things.

6. I happily scalp concert tickets to make profits.

7. I look for restaurants on, eat at said restaurants, and generally have a blast :)

8. I blitz-watch korean dramas and animes, I am completely shameless about it.
I’m really good at
1. Being old, apparently. In NYC I met this girl I jokingly asked her - What year do you think I am in school? She responded 'You must be a grad student, I can tell by the look of despair in your eyes'.

2. Watching anime on 4x so I'm done with each episode by the 5 minute mark lol

3. Screaming arctic monkeys lyrics at people for no good reason

4. Not giving a ****
The first things people usually notice about me
1. I go to the gym
2. I talk very very fast
3. I am like a baby panda I do what I want
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Something something Chuck Palahniuk.
Also, this is the worst thing you will ever read.

Movies: Something something Quentin Tarantino

Shows: Probably Steins; Gate or Breaking Bad.
Music: Whatever's on my Spotify playlist at the moment. Some familiar names include Lana Del Rey.
Food: Meaty stuff. Good food doesn't lend itself to being your 'favorite'.
Games: Old Japanese JRPG's haha :)
The six things I could never do without
meat meat meat meat meat meat seriously I can eat enough meat to feed an entire African village(No offense if you're actually from an African village)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why vegetables become soft when we boil them
Where almonds come from wtf
are you happy now God
Where we go when we die
Separation of mind and body
what happens if i get old and boring
how to never get boring even if i get old
how it is that people who say they are up for trying new things are so often in reality people who don't try very many new things

1. Why so many older women think that relative youth is a dealbreaker.
2. Why so many girls (Not necessarily on OkCupid) are afraid of asking guys out.
2a. Whether people are really content to have no redeeming features but physical appearance (which will fade away with time).
3. Whether I am actually a terrible person, and whether anyone ever feels sorry because they've realized the depth of their wrongs, vis a vis feeling sorry because they got caught.
4. The nature of the unconscious.
5. What it means to be 'exotic'
6. Whether morality is really just relative
7. Why the people who most loudly proclaim that they are 'weird' or 'strange' are so often some of the least interesting people you can possibly find.
On a typical Friday night I am
growing old with other people
The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I know this isn't really a confessions section, but I felt that it was the most appropriate place to put it.

Firstly, I think online dating is a rite of passage. I've met so many interesting people here, some from Singapore, some from Chicago, a couple from KL, and even some people from random parts of the world. It's genuinely been a good experience (save for Okcupid date #5, which I will very happily bitch to you about), and I've met lots of interesting people, some of whom I continue to keep in contact with.

Secondly, commitment will likely be difficult for me since I'm usually around Chicago during the school year. If you're not already aware of this, then I hope you will be after having read this.

Thirdly, I'm not the kind of person who reveals his heart too easily - It's likely that we'll have a great time together, and I so often do, but there's a distinction between having fun (as almost always is the case!) and being able to give something of yourself to another person.

Fourthly, I think I'm similar to most people in that the most private thing I'm willing to admit is that I meet people on OkCupid too! We should be friends :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. If you believe that we are united by our similarities more than we are divided by our differences. (See: You don't think I'm some stalker who is going to show up outside your house and watch you while you sleep, you like concerts, etc herp derp)

2. You know what you want, and you don't overthink it.

3. You like dogs and you think that cats are an advanced breed of aliens sent to take over the world

4. You're not codependent

5. You think the Okcupid blog is fascinating.

6. You're nice, though cutely-awkward-hipster-ohlala ala zooey deschanel kind of works too :)