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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-38
  • Near me
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Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on University
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Jay. I'm currently attending college at Rutgers university and working full time for a sports memorabilia company . I'm a big goofball, quite quirky and funny. I'm laid back, and can get along with just about anyone and seem to make friends everywhere I go. I love music(variety of tastes), movies. Love sports; basketball, football, baseball. I'm an avid reader, love watching movies, I own over 3,000 dvd's. Nice guy, doing the best I can, definitely motivated. I live in New Jersey, but very cultured , I'm an Army brat, lived all over the world, although right now I consider NY and NJ home. I'm very easy to get a long with, funny, nice. Hopeless romantic for sure.

What I'm looking for is personality, communication, honesty! Personality can make someone more or less attractive, please be able to hold a conversation, it seems so easy but apparently it isn't for everyone. I definitely want to find someone whom I can talk to about anything and everything, communication is very important! As far as looks, I don't have a type, the girls I have dated have all been opposite ends of the spectrum, each one of them had something different that I was attracted to. The first thing I notice is face, I've always been a sucker for a cute face.

Essentially I'm looking for someone who can be my best friend as well as my lover.

I am Happy, Intelligent, and Sensible
What I’m doing with my life
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Going back to school, working, trying to live happily
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being awesome, genuine, communicating, debating, defusing situations, being social.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, Lips, Smile, Personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies; The Thing, Vanilla Sky, City of God,Citizen Kane,Psycho,Taxi Driver,Memento,Matrix,Princess Bride,Breakfast Club,Indiana Jones,Goonies,Blow,Mullholand Drive,Requim for a Dream,Clockwork Orange,Last of the Mohicans,Some Kind of Wonderful,Serendipity,American Beauty,American Pie, Leon the Professional,Godfather,Shawshank Redemption,Full Metal Jacket,Forrest Gump,E.T.,Beautiful Mind,Braveheart,Fight Club,Pulp Fiction,Wizard of Oz,Rear Window, Rebound, Traffic, Willa Wonka and the chocolate factory,It's A Wonderful Life , Stranger Than Fiction,Trainspotting,Snatch,Beetlejuice,Seven,Stand by me,Casablnca,Silence of the Lambs,Life as a house, Road to Perdition,Good Will Hunting, High Fidelity,The Ring,Signs,American History x,Juice,Royal Tennebaums,Closer, Alfie, Garden State, Bronx Tale , Silent Night Deadly Night, The Machinist , Inside, Orphan,Night Of The Living Dead, 28 Days Later, I Am Legend,On The Waterfront, Star Wars, The Others, Tourist Trap, Dawn Of The Dead, V For Vendetta, Let The Right One In, Pontypool

Music: Sufjan Stevens, Bright Eyes,Nas,Notorious BIG,Taking back sunday, The Used,Modest Mouse,St. Germain,Miles Davis,R.Kelly,Raphael Saadiq,Coldplay,Velvet Underground,Badly Drawn Boy, Thursday, Get up kids,Yellowcard,Catch 22, Streetlight Manifesto,A.R.E. Weapons,Early November,All American Rejects,Joni Mitchell,Carlos Santana,Boys night out, Lifehouse,Sensefield,Stevie Wonder, Saves the day,Sunny Day Real Estate,Jack Johnson,Third Eye Blind,Burning Airlines,NIN,Petey Pablo,Temptations,OJay's,The Movielife,Bob Dylan,Rolling Stones,Something Corporate,David Bowie,Sublime,Depeche Mode,Ike Reily,Hum,From Autumn to Ashes,80's,Red Hot Chilli Pepers,Jimmy Eat World,Jane's Addiction,Buena Vista Social Club,Bob Marley,Jimmy Hendrix,James Marshall,The Roots,Weezer,Linkin Park,Beatles,Deathcab for cutie,Smiths,Elliot Smith,Red House Painters,Sigur Ros,The Liks,David Gray,Nick Drake, Nico,Frou Frou,Gomez,

Books: Siddhartha,Demian,Choke,City of God,JFK Assassination,Beautiful Mind,1984,Lord of Flies,On the Road, Dharma Bums,Leaves of Grass,Walden,A Farewell to Arms,Smack,Howl,Glue,Naked Lunch,Electric cool-aid acid test,One Flew over the cuckoo's nest,Uleyseus,Captain Courageous,Tales of Mystery and imagination,Newjack,Leading with the heart,Old Times on the Mississippi,Robinson:The sad,wry poet,The Ginsberg files,The Great Gatsby,Catcher in the Rye,Grapes of Wrath, The Da Vinci Code, Angels and Demons, The five people you meet in heaven
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Faith, Freedom, Free speech, Free thinking, Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends, staying in watching dvd's, sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I only joined this site due to the persistance of a friend, I find most of these sites are a big waste of time honestly, but Im still holding out hope :p.
You should message me if
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You can hold a conversation! It seems so simple but holy moly I've encountered sooooo many people on these sites who can't.