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51 • New York, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 4:03am
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Other, and very serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
Discovery of who I am and where I am going is very important to me. In terms of who I am, my Cuban parents raised me here in New York, and I have been able to trace my lineage back to Spain and Russia. I have a down to earth approach to life, and value my ability to intuit people and navigate situations instinctively. I view life overall as an exploration, informed by both spiritual development and taking mindful actions to help others. I enjoy a healthy, balanced life of laughter, adventure, and responsibility.
My eyes too.
I love all music with the exception of hip-hop. I tend to get drawn to stuff like Requiem, Zeppelin, and The Doors. I’m really into Latin Jazz, folkloric Afro-Cuban, house, and pretty much anything that you can dance to.
I love to read books in Spanish, and am recently tackling translations of “The People’s History of the United States,” and “War and Peace.” I also like epic Spanish lit, such as Julio Cotazar’s “Rayuela.”
I find provocative films with social commentary very satisfying. Some examples are Catch 22, Full Metal Jacket, and Dr. Strangelove. Almodovar is one my favorite directors.
On an atypical Friday night, I aspire to have a romantic dinner overlooking the gorgeous coast of Galicia, Spain in late spring.
I believe chivalry and romance are still alive and kicking today, while at the same time I respect equality in a relationship. I welcome a woman who asserts herself and knows what she wants. Sense of humor, valuing spiritual growth, and willingness to laugh at her self are major turn-ons for me.
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