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Abuelalila4

51 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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My friends would describe me as a sensitive, nurturing, open, intelligent, and masculine guy with a certain je ne sais quoi.

Discovery of who I am and where I am going is very important to me. In terms of who I am, my Cuban parents raised me here in New York, and I have been able to trace my lineage back to Spain and Russia. I have a down to earth approach to life, and value my ability to intuit people and navigate situations instinctively. I view life overall as an exploration, informed by both spiritual development and taking mindful actions to help others. I enjoy a healthy, balanced life of laughter, adventure, and responsibility.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a former nursery and junior high school teacher, making a transition towards working in social services and helping others in a positive way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spontaneity like jumping into a friend’s car last minute for a day trip, envisioning a beautiful, comfortable, and nurturing home, inciting riots of laughter when they are badly needed, and listening compassionately. I also have great rhythm.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my blinding good looks of course! Seriously though, I think people notice my thoughtfulness and sincerity, followed by my down to earth, fun-loving persona!

My eyes too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love pretty much any food, but the ambience of the place is most important.

I love all music. I tend to get drawn to stuff like Requiem, Zeppelin, The Doors, U2, Cold Play, Bob Dylan, Paco de Lucía, Pink Floyd, The Rolling Stones, etc.. I also like good Latin Jazz, and House,

I love to read books in Spanish, and am recently tackling a translation of “The People’s History of the United States,”. I also like spanish lit authors such as Julio Cotazar. I enjoy reading about international affairs and current events. Chomsky is a favorite.

I find provocative films with social commentary very satisfying. Some examples are Catch 22, Full Metal Jacket, and Dr. Strangelove. Almodovar is one my favorite directors. I saw the Snowden doc, "Citizenfour" and highly recommend watching it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Gratitude
My sense of being
Books
Organic Foods
Community
Full moons
Art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Global Warming, the billionaire takeover of our democracy. Living a plastic free life. Cooking more. Are we really a computer simulation? I think about how happy I've been lately for no particular reason.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to hang out with friends, go out to dinner, or sometimes just chill at home reading a good book.

On an atypical Friday night, I aspire to have a romantic dinner overlooking the gorgeous coast of Galicia, Spain in late spring.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of the most important things that I have learned from my last relationship is that love is as much about the timing as anything else, and that lasting love requires my willingness to accept you as you are, and myself as I am.
You should message me if
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you are down to earth and a great communicator. Emotional availability is also very important to me.

I believe chivalry and romance are still alive and kicking today, while at the same time I respect equality in a relationship. I welcome a woman who asserts herself and knows what she wants. Sense of humor, valuing spiritual growth, and willingness to laugh at her self are major turn-ons for me.