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Abulikah

47 M Eugene, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:36pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Into subcultures; goth, noise, punk. Would prefer someone with similar tastes.
I play noise under the moniker I Died, but it does not rule my life.
I do a experimental/noise radio show every Tues. night from 8-10 PM on KWVA.
I love cooking and eating Thai/Indian curries.
Been quite obsessed lately with cephalopods and other deep sea life, but thats just something I'm fascinated with.
I do have somewhat of a need for attention but am completely willing to give it also.
I have an average warehouse job from Mon - Fri, despite having a Masters Degree in Russian linguistics.
I am rather on the quiet side, but am able to open up to the right person.
I do reside in the darker corners of the world but can can up for a breath of air and some sunshine.

Definitely looking for a long term relationship, but casual dating is fine too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working mundane job. Creating noisy soundscapes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking with Thai curry paste.
Speaking in jibberish. Vocalizing phonetic-based sounds while performing various actions. Maybe trying to discover the earliest reconstructions of human language.
Creating new lyrics to some of my favorite songs.
Giving massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Andy Warhol like hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Whatever books I find at yard sales for $1 or less; I like books written centuries ago.
Almost any movie that is not recent Hollywood tripe; you know all these crappy remakes and sequels.
Into foreign films, low budget 50s b-movies/sci-fi.

Music: 80s goth, punk, new wave.
Hasn't been any good commercial or semi-commercial music since then.
Also into experimental music. If you are unfamiliar with this kind of music, I would ease you in to it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kitty
My records
Thai curry
A good microbrew
Making noise
Sleep/-ing next to a special someone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The deep ocean, deep space, undulating prairies without any man-made structures, possiblities of traveling faster than light, prehistoric life, quantum mechanics, records that I don't have and want, if its possible that some girl could love me, songs that I like that play over and over in my head, ..... TBC
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either sitting home alone listening to my goth and 80s records and drinking a few microbrews or hanging at a club/show with some friends.
I will attend the First and Last Friday Artwalks if I have someone to accompany me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I`m rather shy and it means so much to me if a girl shows an interest in me {I will definitely return that interest}. Just has to do with previous experiences. It takes just a small nudge to coax me out of my shell.
You should message me if
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You're interested in meeting me, either coffee or a beer is fine.
Note: I do not have a computer at home, but am online usually daily so if you don't get an immediate response, don't worry, I will get back to you.