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31 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Fluently)
My self-summary
I'm a storyteller. I love wrapping my mind around a whole lot of complexity and distilling it into something powerful to share with whomever is open.

I am a generous spirit. I'll email a friend's resume to someone I just met at a party -- and follow up. I sense people's energies extremely acutely, I can actually physically feel it, and I'm good at realigning things if you let me.

I live in the real world. I am logistically capable. I have an MBA. But I really enjoy when someone manages things and I get to think, feel and create. But I can do things too.

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What I’m doing with my life
Directing documentaries, music videos and commercials. Starting up a website.

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I’m really good at
Images and words.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The book that gets me every time is Notes from the Underground.

There's this Japanese film called Mabarosi that's probably my favorite. This perfectly happy man commits suicide for no reason, and his beautiful widow splits her time between starting a new life and wondering why he did it. She's standing by the water at the end, with her second husband, realizing she can't do both.

You should see the way it's shot though. The camera's locked in and wide, and the people move slowly through the frame. No garbage closeups (or music) to tell us what or when to feel. People suffering and wondering actually are dots in the landscape, not big teary eyes, and the director, Kore-eda, a hero of mine, knows it.

Bob Dylan and steak, rare.

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The six things I could never do without
My fingers, or a tape recorder, or pens, or some final writing instrument if there were no other kind.

Scotch and soda.

The New Yorker. I live a little by Anthony Lane. At least the New Yorker every other week then.

When I'm talking to not-smart people I sometimes get an anxious feeling that all the smart people are gone away for good, so I couldn't do without them.

The inexplicable x 2.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've read this and feel like it.

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