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25 M Portland, OR

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Graduated from masters program
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Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Thai

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My self-summary
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Originally from Northern California, went to graduate school in Central California, and moved to Portland, OR once I had the chance. I love to travel; although I've been to China, Thailand, Canada, and around the States. I'm looking to Central America next!

This summary will be the most boasting you will ever hear/see from me. Being a therapist, I tend to listen and respond, but don't get me wrong; once I get going, you better be ready. I guess if you challenged me to a game of 13 or Settlers, it may get a little outrageous. You have been warned.

I prefer process over product, and form with function. I'm drawn to optimism, humor, ambition, and curiosity; however I can get along with a wide range of personalities. The people that really hold my attention are ones that don't mind getting to the point in an instant, that have lots of energy, whose curiosity is insatiable, and those quick to laughter. I'm not all too different, and I don't ask for much, just that you be awesome and open-minded and I'll return the favor. Deal? Deal.I prefer process over product, and form with function.

Hemingway said it best: "Try to learn to breathe deeply, really to taste food when you eat, and when you sleep really to sleep. Try as much as possible to be wholly alive with all your might, and when you laugh, laugh like hell. And when you get angry, get good and angry. Try to be alive. You will be dead soon enough.”
What I’m doing with my life
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I get really into my hobbies, I also enjoy picking them up, setting them down; any and all prepositional expressions involving hobbies. Would you like to teach me piano? And I can teach you swing dancing? We can both teach each other the things we're keen on. Doesn't that sound swell?

I enjoy swimming, hiking, rock climbing, weight lifting, crocheting, reading, writing, swing/blues dancing, bowling, and traveling.

Professionally, I have a Masters in Counseling (marriage and family therapy) and am employed at mental health clinic as a therapist. I like to think it gives me a reason to wear suits to work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Irony, oh am I big on irony; and quoting the Simpson's.

Card games, fixing your bike, dancing, cooking (thai food!), lifting heavy things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My resting face is typically that reminiscent of a naive Candide-like, full smile.
Recently, my dentist told me I should floss more.

I have a very contagious and boisterous laugh.
...You've been informed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Franny and Zooey, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Demian, Journey To The West, Predictably Irrational, Freakonomics, The Great Gatsby, Siddartha, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, Life of Pi, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Candide, Welcome to the Monkey House, Nichomachean Ethics, Sophie's World, Brave New World, The Metamorphosis, Breakfast of Champions, The Tao of Pooh, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, The Book of Five Rings, The Plague, Lolita, The Stranger, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Brief interviews with Hideous Men, Ishmael, Ender's Game, Ender's Shadow, Speaker for the Dead, Xenocide, Children of the Mind, Shadow Puppets, Shadow of the Hegemon, Shadow of the Giant, House of Leaves, Broom of the System, The History of Love, Kafka on the Shore, Catcher in the Rye, The Secret Lives of People in Love, The Dot & The Line: A romance in Lower Mathematics, Proust Was a Neuroscientist, A Mathematician's Apology, The Art of Mathematics, Love and Math. Currently reading: 1Q84

Simpsons, Seinfeld, Futurama, Family Guy, TedTalks (those count yeah?), Arrested Development, True Detective.

I listen to a lot of podcasts, NPR, and OPB... As far as music though, hip-hop, electronic, post-rock, Doo-wop, Blues... El Ten Eleven, The Appleseed Cast,]] [Feist, and Nujabes

Everything from Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind to Oldboy, to Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Spirited Away, Blue is the Warmest Color (not for the reasons you may think), From Up on Poppy Hill, Princess Mononoke, Catch Me If You Can, Stranger Than Fiction, Jeepers Creepers, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Casino, The Dark Knight, Indiana Jones, Helvetica, Objectified, Urbanized, Detroit Lives, and Star Wars... I gravitate towards movies more than TV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Pragmatism
2) Minimalism
3) Absurdism
4) Schisms
5) Isms
6) Ties
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Conundrums. Rube Goldberg. Existential crises. Schrodinger's Cat.
Retirement plans and travel destinations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing detective, mostly this entails trying to return people's lost goods that I find. This happens on a weekly basis. Here's proof:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first time I ate canned pineapples (4 months ago), it blew my mind. Later that month I tried a fresh pineapple for the first time and my life has never been the same.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you have some charm to you. If you can make me laugh (which isn't too hard), and can laugh with me (a bit tricky), that'll bode well for the both of us.

If you love brunch foods but not brunch culture.

If you want to break a social norm!

If you're looking for Amanda Hugginkiss, ho ho.