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59 F San Mateo, CA

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  • Ages 49–60
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  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Dec 7, 2013
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm still hear to help people. I have healed people from this site, and maybe, there are others who need a healing and don't know that this kind of healing exists.
I'm here to say that miracles happen in my life frequently. I'm grateful for the gift I have, to help others find their way.
If you found my profile, perhaps it was to know that you are loved by the Source of all Creation, and since you were asking for help, I could be your life-line.

I got a message from an okc guest who had no profile. He was very direct in asking to connect with me, and it prompted this response from me:
He basically said: " I'm interested in you for friendship and lovers"
My response:
"Interesting request. To be clear. I am in a relationship. I started my profile before I met him. However, keeping my profile open helped save a mans' life who had stage 4 lung cancer. A year ago, he was dying. We met on okc, and we had a common interest in dance and we lived in the same town. We arranged to do a healing session and he has been improving ever since.

You seem to be asking for a healing on your terms. What would make me interested in having a relationship with you, if I am already involved? You haven't created your own profile, so you are either hiding who you are, or dont realize that you can't get any results on okc if you arent willing to share information about who you are. I don't know if you have written to others, but, you can't expect any satisfying results taking this approach.

I am an intuitive healer, and I charge $150 for a session, also offer 4 weekly sessions for $400. You can have the first session for $150, and if you decide to continue, you can switch to 4 sessions for $400.

You can receive more harmony in your life and attract a relationship that would be a contribution to your life if you were interested in making an investment in your own healing. I would be willing to see you on a professional basis. I suspect that you have some serious wounds from your childhood that need healing, so you can move forward and live a consciously fulfilling life.

What ever you decide, I am just speaking a truth to you, for your sake. Good luck on your life journey. If you are interested in my professional help, you can respond here.

My work involves releasing old beliefs and thought patterns no serving you, and co creating a new program for your future that fits more to your true desires."

Message from Access-bars
I should have closed my profile a while ago, but, now I can use it for a good purpose.

I've always know that I am a natural healer. People get an energetic lift, just by being around me. I used to attend fairs a lot, and I would notice that I brought prosperity to the booth vendors where ever I go. When ever I shop, I would often go where it was quiet where I was the only customer in the booth or store, and I started noticing that I attract more business, because customers would follow me like an energetic magnet.

I've been a stylist for more than 20 years, and I naturally can help make people feel better. I've known all my life, I was here to do good things in this world. I have been reaching out, searching for my right platform. But, I was asking the wrong question. It really doesn't matter what platform I use. I just have to show up. So, I'm here to show up.

This last year, I've changed my career again, stepping out as an intuitive healer, so I can help people reset quickly, and start living the life they wish to have, instead of struggling in one particular area. I use tools from a program called Access Consciousness, and I work with a process called the Bars. It will change your life, if you are willing to have it. You see, most people are afraid of change.

Knowing what you know, is better than being in a place of unknown. But, being in the unknown, brings you to a place of possibilities. So, try this question out, and see how it feels: "How does it get better than this? And What else is possible?"

Are you ready to open yourself to a world of possibilities?

If these words resonate with you, I'd love to get your feedback.
If not, be blessed, by the Infinite Universe. I hope you have a happy journey, where ever that may be.

Discovered a secret process in Astrology to help you find the perfect mate. It really works! But, you don't need it. All you have to do is feel if its right. Don't lie to yourself. It won't work. Sometimes, one person is attracted, while the other is not. It shows up on the compatibility chart. The best combination is when you both are attracted to each other. It shows itself clearly in your chart. It's pretty awesome. If you are into astrology, check out It's original. You won't find it anywhere else. I am so lucky to come across it.

Tango got put on hold. Access has my attention. How did I get so lucky to meet someone who will allow me to speak to an audience interested in change. You have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone to change. Einstein's definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting different results. Are you willing to change every day? Access offers tools that open up your reality for something more. How does it get better than that? What else is possible?

Are you health conscious? The ultimate in nutritional support is supplements designed using your personal DNA assessment. And it's affordable. You can get information about your DNA! Did you inherit your father or mother's genetic history? Or maybe not! It's now available. Ask me how you can get your DNA tested to see what your body needs.

Last night I took my first Argentine Tango lesson! Jacqueline is this wonderful dancing buddah that teaches Dance Fusion at the PAC. I took to her style of dance immediately. She mixes Salsa, Cha Cha, and Tango into the hour of dance, and I LOVE it! Just what the Dr. ordered! Thank You Markus and Dr. R. for bugging me! I have been reminded twice now, that dancing free style - like modern dance, unstructured would build some fire for me. I have been keeping Dance Fusion on my calendar for months now, trying to get it into my routine. I am slow to start something new, but once I make the commitment, I put more attention on it until it's integrated into my life. Jacqueline has been an amazing match to what I have been looking for, and I found her with little effort! Yay! So, This is what I learned about myself: Hopefully, you can take some of this away for yourself.

I learned that Tango requires of me to be present. I have to be in the moment. I have to focus on staying in my circle, keeping my attention between me and my dance partner. Don't look down. Don't think!!! Don't Think!!! DON'T THINK!
I noticed that my feet were doing what they were suppose to be doing, as long as I stepped with the music, and kept walking. Keep my frame centered face to face with my partner. As long as I was in the moment, and continued to stay with my partner and be present, I was ok. It was a strange feeling to be "thoughtless"

What I was doing, when I tried to think, was "chase" my partner. I was slightly delayed. How many times do I "chase"
my goals?

Today, I forgot to come to work for one of my most favorite clients. My daughter McKenna stayed home in the morning because she has had a tummy ache for days. She just needed to sleep in a bit longer. I lost track of my routine after that. My favorite auntie (80+ years old) was visiting my mom for lunch and we both decided to meet her. It was a beautiful gathering, full of joy and laughter, and a beautiful sunny day! Then we took a walk to the dance store to replace McKenna's shoes.

I had this feeling that I needed to be at the shop! I kept thinking I have to be there, but I didn't even try to check my calendar! So, we went home. And, I got a phone call from my favorite client! I missed my appointment with her. She's forgiven me, and we're rescheduling for tomorrow, but, I still am upset with myself! Right now, I am mentally punishing myself for not being aware! I was chasing something else. I was in the moment enjoying my auntie and my family, and I could have been on time for my client! But, I didn't use my calendar to check my own schedule. I'm irritated with myself that I didn't listen to my inner guidance! How silly of me to have a calendar if I don't use it! Everything that doesn't allow me to use my tools that I make to keep myself organized, let me destroy and uncreate that! RWGBPPANSBB!!!

3/21/2012 Had my first Argentine Dance class last night! I learn more about myself when I take a class like that. How much am I able to be in present time? That's what it's all about in dance. That's what is all about in just about anything isn't it? I find it in my quilting, golf, yoga, just about anything really. Being present is most valuable when being intimate with the one you love. Ahh, what a sweet thought isn't it? I learned that I can easily let myself start thinking, which is the one thing you don't want to do with the Argentine Dance. You and your partner have to be in sync with the music. It's romantic, passionate, present! Wow!! I am ready for more! Did you happen to watch Dancing with the Stars Monday night! It's going to be a good season! Let me know if you are watching it too!

3/12/2012 Well, I am dancing now! I found this awesome dance class called Dance Fusion and Jaqueline is this amazing and sexy dancer who's inspiring me to get my groove back! I've been taking Pilates for a year and a half and my core is strong, but I was missing music in my life. Yay! I am happy to fit this new hobby into my already full and active life! Until I find my life-mate play-mate, I'll be keeping myself busy and happy doing fun things. How does it get better than this? and What else is possible?

New post as of 2/24/2012. I have a craving to take up dancing again. Dr. Orders! I used to dance all the time. Any kind of dance, I've tried it. I would like get back into salsa or swing. I am good at moving my body where I want it to go. Maybe someone out there needs a good partner. I'm pretty good at following. If you are pretty experienced, and would like to help me brush up my steps, I'd be grateful!

Previous post,
I'm an old soul in a young body. It's taken me quite a long while to be comfortable to be in my own skin. I accept I am unique. I look younger than most women my age. I think younger. I am not set in my ways. I think I am open to new experiences, but with wisdom behind it. I push myself to open myself to new possibilities. I love to meet people who enjoy their life. I hope to meet like minded spirits who have defied the laws of nature, and bend time. I believe you don't have to buy into what society tries to promote. I want to surround myself with friends who know that they create their own reality. I challenge myself to break my own programmed thoughts that don't allow me to have a magnificent, magical life that I know we deserve to live. I stopped believing that life must be hard! I see evidence of it every day, when good things happen.
I've been creative always. Danced, sing, art.
Right now I stay fit by taking Pilates 2-3 times a week. Frankly, I am lazy when it comes to exercise. Pilates is efficient, and gets the job done. I really want to make time for walking in nature, I am sure it will be good for me.
I've been in musical theater. I sang FOR GOOD from Wicked in front of 1000, and made them cry.
I volunteer for my daughters high school theater program as their "wig mistress" I've been in the beauty business for 40 years, and I help with backstage styling at their shows.
I'm into the healing arts, and I pay attention to energy as much as I can stay alert to it. I love the work that I do, and I wish I can do it more. I love making a difference in the lives of others.
I'm also n award winning quilter. Making time for it has been hard in the last few years. I'm like an octopus, trying to manage all the creative avenues I want to keep moving. Always learning to have balance.
Access consciousness is a practice that has helped me to create more space in my thinking to allow me to do more of what I want, not what I need. I love being an access consciousness facillitator. Very rewarding.
I work hard. I keep busy. I'm enjoying my life. The only thing that is missing is you! Maybe! LOL. I'm still not fully convinced that you are required! But, a pleasant and delightful addition to my life!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a boyfriend who produces holistic events. We have been launching an original healing program that works powerfully. We are doing amazing work with amazing results. SpiritTouchdotorg

Got a beautiful daughter to get through college. Feeling blessed to have lots of love and support in my life. How does it get better? What else is possible?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Being grounded, being normal. Some of my friends don't know how I manage my life as I do. I get more done than most people I know. However, I have attracted a new level of friends who are movers and shakers in this world and I am having lots of fun!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Ringing Cedars Series to date. Loved Wicked. Modern Family, Big Bang, Planet Earth, food made with love. Good quality food, with good quality ingredients.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My divine connection
Love of my kids
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How does it get better?
What are the possibilities that ______can show up in my life?
What new amazing person will I meet?
What new amazing adventure is in store for me today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing feels typical, but I can be cozy in my own nest.
I'd enjoy a good movie and good food with a friend
Sports never makes it to the top of the list, ever! Sorry boys, if sports is important and you want company, I am not the one. I wish, but I get bored with games any more. I love a good scrabble game! I am embarrassed to say how caught up I get playing words with friends! So distracting!!!! I used to enjoy Monopoly, but it's been a while. I love Hand and Foot! Do you know what that is?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing yet!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know more about Access consciousness. If you have the courage to see your true self, I would love to help you discover yourself. Enlightenment is truly attractive in the most pure way! I realize there are few who will take this in, but it will be rewarding to who I meet. I love the concept of opening the parameters to what you can attract into your life with a little intention.
I really want to meet the guy who is happy with what they've become in life. You believe in self improvement. You have the courage to change for the better. You are open minded. You think out of the box. You are open to the metaphysical sciences. I've compared science and religion all my life. It all has meaning. Energy is energy.