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58 / F / Straight / Seeing someone

San Mateo, California

Her Details

Last Online
Apr 29
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
2/2013
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Tango got put on hold. Access has my attention. How did I get so lucky to meet someone who will allow me to speak to an audience interested in change. You have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone to change. Einstein's definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting different results. Are you willing to change every day? Access offers tools that open up your reality for something more. How does it get better than that? What else is possible?

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3/21/2012
Last night I took my first Argentine Tango lesson! Jacqueline is this wonderful dancing buddah that teaches Dance Fusion at the PAC. I took to her style of dance immediately. She mixes Salsa, Cha Cha, and Tango into the hour of dance, and I LOVE it! Just what the Dr. ordered! Thank You Markus and Dr. R. for bugging me! I have been reminded twice now, that dancing free style - like modern dance, unstructured would build some fire for me. I have been keeping Dance Fusion on my calendar for months now, trying to get it into my routine. I am slow to start something new, but once I make the commitment, I put more attention on it until it's integrated into my life. Jacqueline has been an amazing match to what I have been looking for, and I found her with little effort! Yay! So, This is what I learned about myself: Hopefully, you can take some of this away for yourself.

I learned that Tango requires of me to be present. I have to be in the moment. I have to focus on staying in my circle, keeping my attention between me and my dance partner. Don't look down. Don't think!!! Don't Think!!! DON'T THINK!
I noticed that my feet were doing what they were suppose to be doing, as long as I stepped with the music, and kept walking. Keep my frame centered face to face with my partner. As long as I was in the moment, and continued to stay with my partner and be present, I was ok. It was a strange feeling to be "thoughtless"

What I was doing, when I tried to think, was "chase" my partner. I was slightly delayed. How many times do I "chase"
my goals?

Today, I forgot to come to work for one of my most favorite clients. My daughter McKenna stayed home in the morning because she has had a tummy ache for days. She just needed to sleep in a bit longer. I lost track of my routine after that. My favorite auntie (80+ years old) was visiting my mom for lunch and we both decided to meet her. It was a beautiful gathering, full of joy and laughter, and a beautiful sunny day! Then we took a walk to the dance store to replace McKenna's shoes.

I had this feeling that I needed to be at the shop! I kept thinking I have to be there, but I didn't even try to check my calendar! So, we went home. And, I got a phone call from my favorite client! I missed my appointment with her. She's forgiven me, and we're rescheduling for tomorrow, but, I still am upset with myself! Right now, I am mentally punishing myself for not being aware! I was chasing something else. I was in the moment enjoying my auntie and my family, and I could have been on time for my client! But, I didn't use my calendar to check my own schedule. I'm irritated with myself that I didn't listen to my inner guidance! How silly of me to have a calendar if I don't use it! Everything that doesn't allow me to use my tools that I make to keep myself organized, let me destroy and uncreate that! RWGBPPANSBB!!!

3/21/2012 Had my first Argentine Dance class last night! I learn more about myself when I take a class like that. How much am I able to be in present time? That's what it's all about in dance. That's what is all about in just about anything isn't it? I find it in my quilting, golf, yoga, just about anything really. Being present is most valuable when being intimate with the one you love. Ahh, what a sweet thought isn't it? I learned that I can easily let myself start thinking, which is the one thing you don't want to do with the Argentine Dance. You and your partner have to be in sync with the music. It's romantic, passionate, present! Wow!! I am ready for more! Did you happen to watch Dancing with the Stars Monday night! It's going to be a good season! Let me know if you are watching it too!

3/12/2012 Well, I am dancing now! I found this awesome dance class called Dance Fusion and Jaqueline is this amazing and sexy dancer who's inspiring me to get my groove back! I've been taking Pilates for a year and a half and my core is strong, but I was missing music in my life. Yay! I am happy to fit this new hobby into my already full and active life! Until I find my life-mate play-mate, I'll be keeping myself busy and happy doing fun things. How does it get better than this? and What else is possible?

New post as of 2/24/2012. I have a craving to take up dancing again. Dr. Orders! I used to dance all the time. Any kind of dance, I've tried it. I would like get back into salsa or swing. I am good at moving my body where I want it to go. Maybe someone out there needs a good partner. I'm pretty good at following. If you are pretty experienced, and would like to help me brush up my steps, I'd be grateful!

Previous post,
I'm an old soul in a young body. It's taken me quite a long while to be comfortable to be in my own skin. I accept I am unique. I look younger than most women my age. I think younger. I am not set in my ways. I think I am open to new experiences, but with wisdom behind it. I push myself to open myself to new possibilities. I love to meet people who enjoy their life. I hope to meet like minded spirits who have defied the laws of nature, and bend time. I believe you don't have to buy into what society tries to promote. I want to surround myself with friends who know that they create their own reality. I challenge myself to break my own programmed thoughts that don't allow me to have a magnificent, magical life that I know we deserve to live. I stopped believing that life must be hard! I see evidence of it every day, when good things happen.
I've been creative always. Danced, sing, art.
Right now I stay fit by taking Pilates 2-3 times a week. Frankly, I am lazy when it comes to exercise. Pilates is efficient, and gets the job done. I really want to make time for walking in nature, I am sure it will be good for me.
I've been in musical theater. I sang FOR GOOD from Wicked in front of 1000, and made them cry.
I volunteer for my daughters high school theater program as their "wig mistress" I've been in the beauty business for 40 years, and I help with backstage styling at their shows.
I'm into the healing arts, and I pay attention to energy as much as I can stay alert to it. I love the work that I do, and I wish I can do it more. I love making a difference in the lives of others.
I'm also n award winning quilter. Making time for it has been hard in the last few years. I'm like an octopus, trying to manage all the creative avenues I want to keep moving. Always learning to have balance.
Access consciousness is a practice that has helped me to create more space in my thinking to allow me to do more of what I want, not what I need. I love being an access consciousness facillitator. Very rewarding.
I work hard. I keep busy. I'm enjoying my life. The only thing that is missing is you! Maybe! LOL. I'm still not fully convinced that you are required! But, a pleasant and delightful addition to my life!
What I’m doing with my life
Developing my practice as a stress management counselor, raising my daughter, creating balance in my life, but making my life important. It seems I am a natural Consciousness Facillitator? I'll be traveling and speaking more
The first things people usually notice about me
Being grounded, being normal. Some of my friends don't know how I manage my life as I do. I get more done than most people I know. However, I have attracted a new level of friends who are movers and shakers in this world and I am having lots of fun!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ringing Cedars Series to date. Loved Wicked. Modern Family, Big Bang, Planet Earth, food made with love. Good quality food, with good quality ingredients.
The six things I could never do without
My divine connection
Love of my kids
Compassion
Gratitude
Hope
Faith
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How does it get better?
What are the possibilities that ______can show up in my life?
What new amazing person will I meet?
What new amazing adventure is in store for me today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing feels typical, but I can be cozy in my own nest.
I'd enjoy a good movie and good food with a friend
Sports never makes it to the top of the list, ever! Sorry boys, if sports is important and you want company, I am not the one. I wish, but I get bored with games any more. I love a good scrabble game! I am embarrassed to say how caught up I get playing words with friends! So distracting!!!! I used to enjoy Monopoly, but it's been a while. I love Hand and Foot! Do you know what that is?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You want to know more about Access consciousness. If you have the courage to see your true self, I would love to help you discover yourself. Enlightenment is truly attractive in the most pure way! I realize there are few who will take this in, but it will be rewarding to who I meet. I love the concept of opening the parameters to what you can attract into your life with a little intention.
I really want to meet the guy who is happy with what they've become in life. You believe in self improvement. You have the courage to change for the better. You are open minded. You think out of the box. You are open to the metaphysical sciences. I've compared science and religion all my life. It all has meaning. Energy is energy.