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30 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 6
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I try to maintain balance in my life, working hard and playing hard; being active and being at rest; hilarious social gatherings and intense political/philosophical/intellectual conversations; fun, light-hearted literature and heavy, eye-opening non-fiction; gallivanting through nature and enjoying what the city has to offer.

Like many people of my generation, I have spent a great deal of time overseas and have been shaped by those experiences. I lived in South Korea for a year and a half where, after 18 months of grad school and being very "grown up", I revived my youthfulness and adventure spirit. I followed that with backpacking through Peru and Ecuador where I learned some of what I am capable of enduring and enjoying. I returned to Portland last summer and am working on building my nest, though I already have the travel bug and don't think I'll ever lose it!

It's very important to me that I continue to have a sense of adventure in my life, whether it's trying new things, doing something wildly entertaining, pushing my fears, immersing myself in the great outdoors, or climbing rocks. Ideally, I would find a partner who shares this zest for adventure and life. If you find that you are uptight, shy, unadventurous, don't laugh much, or would be totally opposed to the idea of running through nature naked, you need not read further.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching at an alternative high school. Cooking with friends. Working in my garden. Playing on an ultimate frisbee team. Dreaming of camping and rock climbing this spring/summer/fall. Going to pub quizzes. Reading. Playing ridiculous games at dinner parties. Watching the San Francisco Giants. Playing guitar on my front porch while enjoying the sunshine and neighbors passing by.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
saying "Yes!" to adventures. Being open-minded. Patience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: To Kill a Mockingbird, Winnie the Pooh, High Fidelity, Cold Mountain, Catch-22, The Confessions of Max Tivoli, Salinger, Vonnegut, Zinn, history books.

Movies: American Beauty, Almost Famous, Big Fish, Funny People, Fried Green Tomatoes, Superbad, The Godfather, Forrest Gump, So I Married an Axe Murderer, Amelie.

Music: indie, folk, bluegrass, soul, funk, classic rock, 90's grunge/alternative.

Food: I like food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, people who make me laugh till I cry, a beautiful landscape, art, adventures, affection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life goals, what I can do to be a better person, things I want to try cooking/baking, politics, books I've recently read, amazing memories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are very few things I won't openly share when asked.
You should message me if
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You're a lovely, positive person with goals and ambitions and know some of the things you want from life. If you don't get drunk frequently, smoke, or do drugs. If you like trying new things, are adventurous, outdoorsy, are comfortable being yourself, and don't need make-up on to leave the house. If you don't play those silly games and rules of dating.

I am looking for a partnership in which we can laugh our asses off together, try new things together, teach each other new things, push each other to be the best we can be, support each other through tough times and crummy days, enjoy music and arts together, enjoy nature together, get dirty together, expand our horizons together. That's all. :-)