I am a widow and have a 4 year old son. I lead a very busy career life as a nurse manager in an oncology unit at a hopsital here in OKC. That's not to say that I don't have time for an amazing man & relationship.
I'm not just here to date casually. I really am hoping to find someone to build a steady, long-term relationship with. I like to be very upfront about what I'm looking for because if you don't want the same, I can't see wasting my time or yours.
Here's the thing...
If you are dishonest or struggle being monogomous, move on.
If you smoke, not for me.
If you do not have a stable job, you're not my perfect someone.
If you are lazy, messy...I do not need another child.
Any strings still attached from previous relationships...NEXT!
If you cannot share/discuss your feelings...we are not a match, trust me.
I'm sorry, this may seem brutally honest. What I am looking for is a man who is 100% sure of where he is in life. Knows what he loves and what he's living for. You MUST be honest and compassionate about ALL things, want kids, like sports/activity, try new things, puts family & friends first, carry the highest goal/morals/values AND be willing to cut loose with me :)
Is that too much to ask for?? haha. If so, I'll wait for it :)