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Notomys

34 Paris, France Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:58am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Little wicked fizzy prototype in a such big strange world.
I see myself as a mouse but my therapist says I am a zebra...;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What I am doing with my life ? Trying to find out what I could really do with it !... But for now, business developer in a video game studio. Used to be producer before. Things changed.
I also fight to keep my place in my bed: but my 8 kilos cat wins, so far. I am in love with that tyranic piece of fur. Edit: and since one did not seem to be enough in the end, I saved a poor second one from another shelter...who quickly felt lonely so I rescued a baby from outside...okay, 3 cats, that's insane I know what you think ! But promise you: no more cats allowed in here. And no more books...Same problem there even with a Kindle...:-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing.And much more again, reading. Anywhere, anything and anytime.
Running ( long distances, such as marathons- yeah- I told you I was insane !) and so eating ( forget salads and bring the BIG -but bio burgers on please !).
And most of all, imaginating and dreaming. Having an idea, leading to another one, jumping to another one, making me think of this and Oh! Did I tell you about this ? Because it reminded me that old story about... What were we talking about ?:)

Last skill? Sleeping. High level. Once again, terrible competitor for my 15 yo cat.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My vivid imagination often understood as madness... And maybe that's what it is in the end !
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books... Ha ! I told you ! So many... Poetry such as Eluard, Char, Desnos. But also French writers as Duras, Malraux, Beauvoir, Sartre, Edgar Morin...
But also Benatar, Taleb...and Alice in the wonderland...and Moonin the troll and Calvin and Hobbes, and Spinoza and Nietsche, and Camus and Hofstadter ( that last one is bitchy to understand !)

Movies... So many too! Lars Von Trier's, Paul Thomas Anderson, Charlie Kaufman's, Michel Gondry's...Anime...Documentaries...Depardon's movies.

Musicals: saw Wicked few time ago. LOVED IT.

Music? Jazz ( Keith Jarrett, my one and only), but also classic ( Chopin, yes) pop, rock…Name dropping? Tracy Chapman, Peter Gabriel, Birdy, Cinematic Orchestra, Massive Attack, BOY, Hans Zimmer, Hiromi, Imogen Heap, Imany, Irma, Telepopmusic, Y'akoto, U2... and even Eminem before my run- but after I run with silence.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"The most important things in life are not things".

But OK let's play the game...

-my Kindle to minmax my passion for books
-my passeport
-my magical cat family (their magic is the thing indeed)
-my spider in my brain
-my small MacBook Air
-my Cartier Trinity ( bitch you have a Cartier ring?! So superficial !)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love and society I'm living in.
I also often try to find a way to stop thinking actually ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Improvising. But let's be honest: I don't do bar or nightclubs.
I love spending time on my own, at home cause dude, I'm working for paying it basically, so I love to take benefit of it !
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"In the end, all is a game".
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think love of any kind is addition, not addiction nor retrenchment. And place freedom and respect above everything.

You think a mind stretches to new ideas never comes back to its original dimensions.

You think we are in the present, right here in the moment. And that no promise should be made- but dreams should definitely be followed: life is short !
In the end...Who knows what the future holds when we are all so fooled by randomness ?

If you have many contradictions that you keep nurturing tough.
If you don't take yourself too seriously.
If you have authentic time to offer, and not just few superficial moments here and there to fill up the vacuum

If you *don't* have any specific things to hide ( your face- come on, put a picture please, it never killed anybody, your job - what's the big mystery around this that you wanna keep to yourself until a drink?-your children or you wife- if you have some, why don't you just say it? It's fine with me...etc.)

If you can wait for a little while before getting immediatly a drink, just the time to check we do have things to share and discuss...

If you look like the characters of Vampires Diaries soap - boys or girls- mainly girls ! ( okay, okay, I do watch this ! ^^Who's never watched dumb things on TV just shoot first...)

If you can deal with spiders without killing them !
If you can kill mosquitos with cold blood in summer.
If you did not mention "sex" twice in the things you could not do without in your list (imagination maybe?)

Then !:-) , don't hesitate to drop a word to tell me about hope, life, dream, beauty, love, Vampires Diaries, cats, books, spiders, children, travel, cooking, coding, running, or *whatever* you feel like.

PS: you don't know what to tell but you wanna let me know about it. Go ahead anyway.

PS2: "Try. Fail. Learn. Repeat".

PS3: The chocolate is mine. Take it easy.

PS4: The pictures were taken in Thailand. Chocolate is still non negotiable. Suck it up.

PS5: There is a man in my life. He knows I am here and yes he is OK. So please, keep your judgement for yourself if you think we are sick. Maybe we are, who's not ? But promise we are not dangerous. Hope everyone could say the same on the earth;)