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Act4You

41 / F / straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am outgoing, playful, and artistic.

My Self-Summary

Hiya! I'm an upbeat, outgoing, fun person who loves making new friends and socializing. I work in the arts and I am very passionate about what I do. I can get busy working on multiple projects but I always make time for people who are important to me. I'm honest, fun, playful, open-minded and supportive. I like to learn, teach, reflect and grow as a person, but I can also be silly, feisty, and sometimes a smartass.

If you are reading this and happen to be...oh, charming, funny, educated, a great conversationalist, who leans to the left (politically, not in your best "cool stance", though that's okay too) and would say you are optimistic, not homophobic and can be both serious and silly, I'd love to hear from you! I have to say that I usually am attracted to younger men with a full head of hair who are open to learning about new things and rarely feel bored. Though please be mature, hoping to find a great long term relationship, and emotionally open. Bonus points if you like good movies or would be up for going to the theater!

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently...drumroll....
-In rehearsals for an upcoming short film I got cast in.
-In rehearsals/editing stages of my one-woman show with a wonderful director!
-Trying to finish up two scene books that are due to my publisher! Just hired a great intern.
-Auditioning for films.
-Teaching & Private Coaching acting students.
-Seeing a lot of shows and movies.
-Increasing my social circle.
-Looking to meet you!

I’m really good at

Motivating people
Drinking lots of coffee
Talking with passion
Teaching acting
Staying up late
Connecting people
Understanding what makes people tick
Avoiding sleep

The first things people usually notice about me

Um, I guess I would say that I have lots of hair, big boobs, and tons of personality/energy??

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love David Sedaris.
I read more plays than books.
Movies - too many - here are a few: Amadeus, The Insider, Notes on A Scandal, On the Waterfront, Shakespeare In Love, Thelma & Louise, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, All the President's Men, East of Eden, Wonder Boys, Bandits, Brokeback Mountain, etc...

The six things I could never do without

Good friends & Family
Acting/Writing/Creating
Coffee
Orgasms
Chocolate
Oh, this is hard to just have 6! Here are my runners up for the 6th spot:

Kittens, the smell of Fall air, the excited feeling of meeting someone new with mutual attraction and a good first kiss

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I am in my life/the scheme of things that I would like to do.

On a typical Friday night I am

Nothing about my schedule or life seems to be typical.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I will tell you lots of things if you want to hear them and are open-minded.

You should message me if

you are still reading this!