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Actek1975

38 M Sarasota, FL

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I work in the theatre industry so if that doesn't scare you, or even better, actually peaks your interest, great...

I have traveled a lot of the world doing this work. I have been to a lot of places that many have never been and most will never be...
I have done a lot of things that people usually find awesome but ironically enough, I end up thinking of as just another thing that I have done...
(After a while, you just didn't want to go through the Panama Canal AGAIN...)

Most people who get to know me think I am a great guy... They don't know why a girl has not snatched me up, which I tend to wonder as well...

Tried another fishy site with no luck, figured I would give the Roman god a try...
What I’m doing with my life
Working in a career that I love.
I've wanted to work in theatre since I did my first show and I was 9. I never really had an interest in doing anything else.
I work at The Players Theatre in Sarasota running sound and video for show as well as working with the lighting and then whatever else needs to be done with the scenic and technical side of things.

I do what I can to help my parents, I wish I could do more for them... (That is a whole other story.)
I’m really good at
People tell me I am very good at baking. When I make cookies for work they love them.
I see recipes as a guideline and tend to try different things to see how they turn out. Sometimes it is good, sometimes it is less than good...

I also tend to make people laugh. Usually end up with the comedic part in a show even though playing the bad guy can be fun.

Remembering weird facts about movies and random quotes from movies.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS:
Big fan of Stephen King. Love horror and thriller story lines. I also have enjoyed Douglas Adams, Terry Pratchet, I like the Legend of Drizzt series by R.A. Salvatore. Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Twilight (even though vampires should not sparkle).
I am a comic book reader but not as many titles as I might enjoy reading (you could go broke doing that...).
Currently reading through the 'True Blood'/Sookie Stackhouse novels... Not bad...

MOVIES:
Name it... I love all types of movies even the "chick flicks", horror, comedy, musical, bizarre... I am up for it. (Anything by Kevin Smith...)

SHOWS:
I don't have cable so my regular TV watching is limited but I do enjoy 'The Office', "The Big Bang Theory', 'Smallville', 'Charmed', 'Wipeout', 'Ninja Warrior', first couple of seasons of 'Heroes'.
Whatever might strike an interest...
The most reality that I get is 'Face Off', 'Jim Henson's Creature Shop', 'Chopped', 'Cutthroat Kitchen'.
More of the competition reality shows...

MUSIC:
I can appreciate all types of music as well even if they are not my favorite. Most played; Meat Loaf, Jimmy Buffet, Broadway soundtracks. Anything that makes you feel good or pumps you up... I don't like 'angry music'...

FOOD:
I grew up being told a meal was not a meal without a sacrifice. I am not opposed to vegetables but I want meat too...
(I was a vegetarian for a day by accident once.)
I am willing to try anything once or twice.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order...

1 - Shorts - I hate wearing long pants... Even in college in Illinois, I wore shorts all year, got some weird looks but shorts are more comfy... Unfortunately, I still have to wear pants for work...

2- Flip Flops - Shoes are very close to pants... I prefer the comfort of some flip flops or toe shoes are great too, like wearing nothing at all...

3 - Movies - I love all types, always a good way to escape reality... If you want to get me talking, start talking about movies.

4 - God/Family - regardless of how hard things are, they always make it better.

The last two are the necessary evils...

5 - Money - Until everything is free and/or volunteering pays the bills, I will need it...

6 - Work - a means of getting number 5... Of course even if I was independently wealthy, and/or everything was free, and/or volunteering paid the bills, I like to keep busy. I enjoy the work I do...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What was and what will be or could be.

I tend to either re-enact confrontations or possible situations and think about how they could have turned out.

'What if' situations. What would happen if I had taken a different career path? What if I had done the smallest thing different. The whole butterfly effect deal...
On a typical Friday night I am
Considering the business I am in, probably working... Weekends are very different, or a foreign concept, for a theatre person.

With my current job, if we are in show mode, I am off... Weird I know for a show to be dark on a Friday night, but Drag Queen Bingo brings in some good revenue so that is the norm for the theatre on Fridays... Of course the summer show schedule is different so I will have shows to do on Fridays.
Email me and find out if I am actually off on the upcoming Friday...

Ideally? Enjoying time with friends or family. Playing games, or seeing a movie or heading out and playing pool or darts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get really annoyed when I take the time on here to read a profile, and send a message that is more than;
"Hi... How are you?"
"Wassup? Ur cute!"
(Which most ladies on here claim to desire the former...)
Then getting no response (whether is states on the profile they respond selectively or very selectively), or worse yet, no response and then seeing the profile is deactivated...

I can freak people out sometimes but I have never ended up sending them running for the hills or into hiding.

I am not sure how truthful ladies are being when they say they want a nice guy when they ignore one who spends the time to write a decent message containing information from the profile, and or pictures instead of, "Yo, gurl, you foin... Hit me ^"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want a guy who will remember the little things like that you don't like pickles on your burger, and the special way you like your hot chocolate made.

You aren't looking for a GQ model (I work on it when I get the motivation.) or a sugar daddy (I went in the the entertainment industry... Only a slim chance that I will be rich).

You don't expect extravagant gifts and trips ALL the time. Again, I work in the theatre...