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Actswrite

49 M Salt Lake City, UT

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:52pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Every encounter I have had in my life has made some change in who I am. I am not done. I am not finished. I am drawn to people who live this unfinished life in motion. People who say NO are rewarded with the safety they achieve, people who say YES are rewarded with the adventures they live. This doesn't mean jumping out of planes, running with bulls or taunting inanimate objects. It can be as simple as stopping for an hour and listening.

I really have no answers. I really do not feel the desire to fill this box, on this screen, with things that will make me sound "appealing", I am appealing, just ask the studio audience. They are paid to make me sound funny and interesting. Now and then they give me an awwww ... usually when I am holding a baby lion, tiger, bear or a firm cream cheese.

I like books and food, the sound of laughter, the heat of a good argument. The crack of a ball off a bat, dark bars on Tuesday afternoons, theater, fall, muggers who wear name tags so the experience is more personal. I am hoping for someone who wants to take the time to get me and show me who they are at this point in time.

Truthfully, conflict will happen. Anyone who thinks that they can be with another person and not have moments of conflict is seeking a robot. How we resolve conflict, learn from it, move forward with it is interesting to me. Conflict, to me, is not the same thing as what some call "drama" .... drama is a literary genre and a performance style. That's not life. I am willing to listen and learn. I am willing to be open. I am willing to try. I am willing to share my lunch, my hopes, dreams, desires ... Not my socks ... I want to take time and be, see what that leads to. I am looking for simple.

Simple not in the, my dad and mom were brother and sister and now I look like an evolutionary mishap, simple. But simple in the way we respect and listen, think and act. There are so many weird, unknowable factors in finding romance, finding love, finding a parking space, finding that other sock that was lost in the dryer, finding someone ... I don't want to add to the difficulties with trivial games and lies.

If you have time, patience, interest and a red wagon or a radio flyer sled and you've got a free minute, drop me a line, I promise to respond.
What I’m doing with my life
Oddly enough, am doing what I love and loving what I do. I am very fortunate to follow my passion and make a small living at it. rare and wonderful this is and I am thankful for it ever single day.
I’m really good at
Listening, really listening. Not just waiting for the word that allows me to talk about myself. And reading. I am good at walking and my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am not heavily armed. That I appear to be very shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So many books and movies yet to be seen and so many that have already had a profound effect on me ... I don't want to insult any by leaving them off the list.
The six things I could never do without
I don't know. I mean there are certain things I would rather not do without, but, if I had to do without them, I would endeavor to do so. I couldn't do without thinking. I couldn't do without breathing ... those types of things. But, as far as materiel goods; A good, heavy pen. Paper to write on. Shoes to walk in. Foods to fill me. Laughter. Music. The word supine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work and people. Words and how to weave them. How we interact and why we treat each other the ways we do. How can I do better and be better.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either working or home reading or watching the night crawl by.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an introvert. This does not mean that I am anti-social. I am a high self monitor. I love being in and among people, but it also makes me nervous.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
if you're interested, curious, hopeful. You want a good conversation, a book recommendation or you just want to try something off your usual path.