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Acuzio_Onyx

30 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:55am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hey! Let's keep this short and sweet so that we'll have something to talk about on our first date.

I have two careers. In one I'm a recording engineer and a musician and in the other I'm a senior-level IT guy. Basically, my ducks are in a row; my long-term goals and ambitions are being realized as you read these words. It took a lot of effort to get into this position. I'm optimistic and driven, and when things don't go the way I envisioned, I put in the hard work to set them right. This applies to how I handle relationships, too. As long as I believe there is more to be done, I will soldier on.

In addition to work and career stuff, I have a lot of hobbies. Typical ones like going out to eat and trying new restaurants, watching TV series / movies / video games, and participating in outdoor activities like biking, running, and kayaking, but I also have a few rarer hobbies like attempting to cook at a professional level, analyzing music using theory, and photographing events and landscapes.

I also play guitar, which naturally is one of the most cliche instruments a guy can write about playing in a dating profile, but the difference is, I can really play; I know more than four chords. I can also sing. I'm kind of shy about it, but the few people who have heard me have been impressed. Maybe they were biased, but it was still flattering. Play your cards right and you might hear my lovely music yourself.

Finally, I'm kind of a fitness buff. I'm no bodybuilder, but I like to exercise. My goal is to feel like I'm at peak physical condition at all times and I certainly am at the moment. It would be amazing to find someone else who shares my interest in staying fit and active.

That's all for now. Au revoir!

P. S. It is rare for me to send messages. I only send them if I am actually interested, and they become fewer and fewer in number as I discover more people who are only signed up to sites like these for narcissistic reasons. One woman confirmed my suspicions when she wrote back, "I'm pretty much just on here for an ego boost." She was listed as looking for a long-term relationship. So, please feel free to send me the first message, wink, or like. I will not hold it against you and I promise to be polite and responsive in return.
I’m really good at
Reading people.

Listening.

Being punctual and considerate of other people's time.

Assisting with artistic projects.

Living an authentic life free of excuses.

Making easy friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall, dark(-haired), and laid-back.

"You have a kind-looking face."

OkCupid once said I was significantly "More Cool" than most people. I hope that comes across in person in a non-elitist way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:

Douglas Adams - The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Jane Austen - Pride and Prejudice, Ray Bradbury - The Long Rain, Anne Brontë - The Tenant of Wildfell Hall, Mark Z. Danielewski - House of Leaves, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe - The Sorrows of Young Werther, Frank Herbert - Dune, Haruki Murakami - The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, George Orwell - 1984, The Works of H. P. Lovecraft.

Movies:

A Clockwork Orange, Aladdin, American Beauty, Back to the Future Trilogy, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Big Fish, Blade 2, The Cell, Dr. Strangelove, The English Patient, The Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, The Fall, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Fight Club, Ghost in the Shell 2: Innocence, Hot Fuzz, Inception, Indiana Jones Trilogy, Juno, Kick-Ass, Kill Bill Vol. 1 & 2, Knocked Up, The Matrix, Memento, Millenium Actress, Pan's Labyrinth, The Princess Bride, Princess Mononoke, Pulp Fiction, The Ring, Se7en, Shaun of the Dead, Shutter Island, Sleepy Hollow, Star Wars Trilogy, Time Bandits, UHF.

Music:

Badalamenti, Bartok, Beethoven, Debussy, Elfman, Faure, Hisaishi, Hovhaness, Pärt, Rachmaninoff, Satie, Smetana, Tchaikovsky, Vivaldi, Whitacre.

12 Rods, Air, Amon Tobin, Aphex Twin, Araabmuzik, Armor for Sleep, Bat for Lashes, Beck, Bibio, Big Troubles, Björk, Black Moth Super Rainbow, Blackfield, Bloc Party, Bonobo, Boys Night Out, Brad Mehldau, Bumblefoot, Charlotte Gainsbourg, Chris Cornell, Clams Casino, Cocteau Twins, Coldplay, Com Truise, Craig Armstrong, Curve, Daft Punk, Depeche Mode, Descendents, Disasterpeace, DJ Shadow, Doves, Dream Theater, Elliott Smith, Failure, Field Music, Fleet Foxes, Frankie Rose, Freelance Whales, Frou Frou, Gonzales, Guthrie Govan, Halloween Alaska, Imogen Heap, Incubus, Interpol, Iris, J Dilla, Jacaszek, Jason Falkner, Jeff Buckley, John Mayer, Johnny Hates Jazz, Jon Brion, Jonathan Coulton, Joni Mitchell, Kaskade & Deadmau5, Kate Havnevik, Keane, Ken Andrews, Kyte, Lemon Jelly, Lotus Plaza, LTJ Bukem, Maaya Sakamoto, Margot and the Nuclear So and So's, Massive Attack, Mellowdrone, Meshuggah, Mew, Midlake, Mike Doughty, Mike Patton, Minus the Bear, Mr. Bungle, Mr. Mister, Muse, Mystery Palace, Nick Drake, Nine Inch Nails, Noah "40" Shebib, Nobuo Uematsu, Oasis, Oingo Boingo, Opeth, Periphery, Phantogram, Phil Collins, Phoenix, Pink Floyd, Polaris, Porcupine Tree, Portishead, Protest the Hero, Purity Ring, Radiohead, Regina, Ride, Rufus Wainwright, School of Seven Bells, Scott Walker, Scritti Politti, Sigur Ros, Silverchair, Sophie and Peter Johnston, Soul Coughing, Soundgarden, Speedy Ortiz, St. Vincent, Stars, Steel Panther, Steely Dan, Steve Hauschildt, Sting, Sunny Day Real Estate, Swervedriver, Tame Impala, Tears for Fears, The Almost, The Alpha Conspiracy, The Bird and The Bee, The Depreciation Guild, The Divine Comedy, The Grays, The Police, The Reign of Kindo, The Smashing Pumpkins, The Twin Atlas, The Walkmen, The Week That Was, The Zombies, Third Eye Blind, This Day & Age, Thom Yorke, Thomas Newman, Thundercat, Todd Rundgren, Tom Petty, Toy Matinee, Ulrich Schnauss, Underoath, UNKLE, Violens, Xyzzy, Yasunori Mitsuda, Year of the Rabbit, Yes, Yoko Kanno, Yuzo Koshiro, Zero 7.

jascha., Scanlines, Bonesetters, SM Wolf, Faux Paw.

Food:

Anything well-made. I like all types and ethnicities of food and I'm a sucker for people who can cook. The way to my heart is through my stomach. It's a weakness!
The six things I could never do without
1. Bicycle. Riding downtown is the only way.
2. Cream and sugar. Sweet tooth.
3. Cologne. French.
4. Weight set. Flex!
5. Music. Creative expression.
6. Intelligent conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The colors of the sky and the shapes of clouds. Chord progressions in popular music. How perception influences reality. Visiting the next restaurant on the list. Existentialism. Schopenhauer's "Hedgehog's dilemma."
On a typical Friday night I am
Out on the town with or without friends; attending shows, parties, and events. Trying my best to be a responsible adult while also trying to let go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to go a long, long time between serious relationships. Typically several years. I do not have a list of traits or requirements for a partner, but I always know her when I meet her, and in that sense I am very selective. I like to choose wisely and go all in.

I am already saving for retirement because I am a long-term planner. Eventually, if I find the right person and our circumstances make sense, I would like to get married and have children. If it's in the cards.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are bold. You took the time to gain a sense of my personality by reading between the lines of my rather limited profile. You have more going for you than your marvelous looks. You are respectful. You are emotionally available, stable, and mature.

P. S. It is rare for me to send messages. I only send them if I am actually interested, and they become fewer and fewer as I discover more people who are only signed up for narcissistic reasons. One woman confirmed my suspicions when she wrote back, "I'm pretty much just on here for an ego boost." She was listed as looking for a long-term relationship. So, please feel free to send me the first message. I will not hold it against you and I promise to be polite and responsive in return.