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Adalena

60 / F / straight / Single

Newburyport, Massachusetts

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am independent, smart, and compassionate.

My Self-Summary

My life experiences have been varied; I've moved around quite a bit, lived in five different beach towns in and out of the US, and now I am in Sarasota, thinking to make it my final home. Retiring is not in my vocabulary, instead I'm looking for the next challenge or opportunity to grow, to do my work and to meet up my my partner, mate, lover.
To describe myself I might say i am smart and wise and easy on the eyes. I am open and flexible, but know what I like.
I like most music but especially the blues and reggae. My physical activities include practicing yoga, walking in beautiful places like the beach or the woods, dancing NIA or Zumba and free dancing to live music. For me there is nothing like dancing to get the heart rate up, lift the spirit and show who I really am.
For entertainment I like a good movie, especially documentaries and foreign films. I read well written novels, Sun magazine, and do crossword puzzles to challenge my mind and prove to myself I know some things.
My sons are grown, healthy and happy. The four grand kids are a joy, and live too far to see as often as I would like.
I am independent, very. But also love having a few best friends and am always open to meeting kindred spirits for scintillating conversations or going out on the town to have some fun.

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying living in warm weather all year long, teaching yoga, leading groups, staying healthy and positive, being a good friend, traveling as much as I can, especially to foreign countries. Jamaica is my home away from home and I visit at least once a year. I dream of India and The East.

I’m really good at

Creating beauty in my surroundings, dancing free form, not leading or following, just moving to the beat. I am good at teaching, listening deeply, sharing information and feelings, being loyal and having integrity. I am good at honesty...some might say it is a fault of mine but I believe in speaking my truth. I am good at being organized and multi-tasking. It sometimes surprises people to find out I can be really funny.

The first things people usually notice about me

My energy and my smile

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like a well written book, independent movies and documentaries and dramas that are authentic. My taste is for healthy food, especially Thai. But pizza is always tempting. My attraction for music is eclectic but I do love reggae, the blues, soul, really anything that gets me up and moving

The six things I could never do without

a healthy body that lets me move freely
a diet that supports health
a warm climate
a spiritual focus to my life
deep connections with friends and family
laughter

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Spiritual matters, personal growth, how I can help, ways to earn right livelihood, family and friends, staying fit, the state of the union, justice, honor, kindness.

On a typical Friday night I am

there is no typical anything for me

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am ready for the final and best yet relationship with one male partner. Life is good now but will be even better when he shows up, not just in my dreams but in the everyday reality. i am ready to be fully loving and loved.

You should message me if

You think we are on the same page in what we want and are fully available in body mind and spirit. If you love your self and know what is missing is one good woman to walk beside on the path; if you have the qualities that I seek...integrity, fun loving, smart, communicative, sexy, affectionate, are financially stable, independent yet seeking an interdependence, are adventurous, kind and compassionate, serious, yet light.
If this sounds like you...be bold and send me a message to entice me.