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31 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 17
Black, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to mess with people. Keeps them on their toes.

I was mostly brought up in England, but don't get excited, I no longer have the English accent (unless I'm really drunk). I've traveled a lot and still feel the need to.

I'm in a committed relationship with my awesome girlfriend (erwinawuebs) who helped me with my profile. We are monogamish. If that's cool with you, then you're cool with me.

"The cultural ban on having sex with your friends is an inevitable offshoot of a societal belief that the only acceptable reason to have sex is to lead to a monogamous marriagelike relationship."
Let's be friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a singer-songwriter. I do solo stuff and I'm also in an 8-piece band called On The Sun ( And, I bartend.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Foosball, singing, making the most amazingly corny jokes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People notice my beard I would say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "The Alchemist" Paulo Coelho. "Me talk pretty one day" David Sedaris. "If nobody speaks of remarkable things" Jon McGregor. "Welcome to the monkey house" Kurt Vonnegut. "The Prophet" Kahlil Gibran. "The Martian" Andy Weir. "Powers" Brian Michel Bendis. "Y:The last man" Brian K. Vaughan. "Invincible" Robert Kirkman & Cory Walker.

Movie: Mallrats, High Fadelity, Resovior Dogs, The Shawshank Redemption, Good Will Hunting, Garden State, Snatch, Space Balls, Joes Apartment, The Tao of Steve, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Guardians of the Galaxy!!!

TV: HIMYM, Dr. Who, Community, the venture brothers, firefly, teachers, Black Adder, Red dwarf, coupling, Futurama, Amy Schumer, Key & Peele, Fry & Lourie, The Boondocks, Game of Thrones, Breaking bad, Sherlock, Black Mirror Daredevil among others.

Music: Muse, steriophonics, Nas, Barenaked Ladies, Regina Spektor, Big L, Common, D'Angelo, Mos Def, Miles Davis, lLpe Fiasco, Massive attack, Badly Drawn Boy, Keane, John Legend, Anthoney Hammilton, Frank Ocean, Tony Lucca, Jennings, Jamie Bendell, Todd Kramer, Josh Taylor, Scott Barkan, Bianca Merkley, Debussey, Chopin, Ben Harper, Jack Johnson, Danger Doom (Mf. Doom Patrol), Imogen Heap, the streets, Ernie Halter, perfect circle, Bob Marley, feist, Alabama Shakes, death cab for cutie, iron and wine, much much much more.

I've been really into Emily King and The California Honeydrops right now. Can't get enough of them!!

Food: being brought up mostly in England I love Indian food, but really anything spicy is OK. I love to try new foods and there isn't really much I don't like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A guitar
A pen & paper
Live music (performing or watching)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Why I can't sleep, (seriously, I don't know how I function).


What great people I'll meet next.

The next project I'll be working on at the studio.

Why Spotify has to stop the song I'm listening to, to start a radio based on that song!?! Am I right?!?

Why people are so judgmental about open relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I mostly get Fridays off from work, so I'm either out playing a gig or watching some live music. Gotta support the NYC music scene!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm so self conscious about grammar, that after proof reading my profile and noticing a couple of grammatical errors, I hole heartedly believe that's the reason I haven't been getting responses on here.

Besides that, I'm really an open book. The only thing I keep to myself, is other people's secrets.
You should message me if
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If you enjoyed my profile and want to talk to me about anything that I like.

If you enjoyed my profile and want to talk to me about anything that you like.

(Tattoos, musicians and Whovians are a plus, but not compulsory.)

Again, I'm in an open relationship. My girlfriend is everything I need. So I'm not looking for someone to replace her. I'm just looking for someone who I can hang with and doesn't have a stick up their Pìgu.