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Adam_is_here

32 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hey! Thanks for looking into my profile here. Much appreciated.

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I guess I am into lists these days. Perhaps they are easier to read? They are certainly easier to write. What follows may or may not be useful in assessing if you would enjoy my company.

If my vote counts for anything... I say yes. Yes, you will. =]

Strengths:
- Pretty strong
- Double meanings, plus often a bonus unintended third meaning
- If I haven't read the book you are talking about, I won't automatically initiate a thinly veiled transition to something I have read. Let's hear about your thing, y'know?
- Converting talk --> action
- Estimating drive times
- Surprises
- Extremely slow to anger, quick to forgive, and very likely not even offended in the first place
- not on twitter
- endearingly naive
- I think women are as funny as men

Weaknesses:
Well, let's see. - Fashion, certainly
- Somewhat defensive at times
- meeting people at bars
- too few weaknesses
- Why'd you call me defensive? I am not!
- Occasionally cynical
- Wish I was a little bit taller
- nonthreatening to a fault
- not on twitter
- portion control

Here's what i would really like you to know about me. I promise that I will do exactly what I say. Let's say we agree to do something- I will show up, i will be nice, I'll probably try to pay for your grande soy americano with room, and I won't bother you any more than you want.
I’m really good at
May I just say this. If your profile has one of these sections- "Hey! look here, dickheads; don't message me if..."

Chances are your complaint doesn't apply to me. Somehow, I have the innate sense not to post pictures of me shirtless laying on the hood of a car. Nobody ever even had to tell me! Same goes for just winking and saying "Ur Hot." I totally wasn't just about to do that.

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My dog is super cool. I'm sure of nothing in life if not this fact -> You will like her.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends what i'm doing.

When out running, I'll bet they notice that i'm air drumming and singing backup vocals to something.

If i'm grocery shopping they'd probably notice that I have too much stuff in my basket and I shoulda got a cart.

If they see me on a dating website they will undoubtedly notice that my profile is woefully incomplete.

If they see my house, one might think that it is cleaner than most... but... yep- on closer inspection, I probably need to sweep again.

If they are talking to me. Hopefully they notice that I am actually listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC

A small list of songs I would be happy to hear at any time. You should feel doubly encouraged to say something if you especially enjoy any of the following tracks:
True Love Waits, Headlights look like Diamonds, Concrete Schoolyard, Poem on the Underground Wall, Let Down, Dosed, No Ha Parado De Llover, Maps, Stop Making Sense, Only in Dreams, Farmhouse, Needle in the Hey, Anna Begins, All my friends.
I realize most of those are old. Or at least not new.

MOVIES
Here is my favorite...
COMEDY: Wayne’s World
DRAMA: The Usual Suspects
CLICHE GUY MOVIE: tie: Gladiator/Braveheart/Top Gun/Fight club
HORROR: No thank you
MOVIE NO ONE HAS SEEN BUT ME: Big Trouble
MOVIE WITH 6 WORD TITLE: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
CARTOON: not sure. But I concede that there are plenty of good ones.
CHILDRENS MOVIE FOR ADULTS: Princess Bride
KEVIN BACON MOVIE: A Few Good Men
COLLEGE STONER FLICK: Lebowski
IMDB TOP 10: Shawshank

BOOKS
and now, My Fav...
HIGH SCHOOL REQUIRED READING: Gatsby, Farewell to arms
DYSTOPIAN SOCIAL COMMENTARY: 1984
OVER-SEXED NOUVEAU-LITERATURE: Skinny Legs and All
BOOK BY NPR TYPE GUY: Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim
TOME: Anna Karenina
TRENDY FAUX -INTELLIGENTSIA NONFICTION: Blink
SELF-HELP: I’ll get around to these right after I watch some horror movies
BOOK BY DA VINCI CODE GUY: tie- Angels and Demons/Da Vinci Code
AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Clinton’s
HISTORICAL FICTION: not totally sure what this is
WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT? The Magus
BOOK I’VE NEVER READ: Middlesex/Kiss of the Spider Woman
DID YOU READ HUNGER GAMES? yes
WHAT ABOUT TWILIGHT? no
REALLY? yes
GAME of THRONES? Winter is coming
The six things I could never do without
"things I could never do without" is too dramatic and not at all the way I talk in real life.

How about this:
things i like more than most
salad
soccer tournaments
wood glue
manual transmissions
having 2 monitors
storage
gala apples
flexible schedule
hearts
ping pong
blueberries
driving at night
arrested development
the economist
beach volleyball
multitasking
happy hour
Jeopardy!
Kit Kats
boats
Trader Joes
The Hollywood Bowl
Well written emails
Weekday skiing
Cooking sans recipe
The Onion
Being on the same page with someone
New York City
Cinnamon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I expend a lot of effort conspiring to get my friends in the same spot doing something fun. Your days off are not safe around me. I will fill them with obscure adventures. Fair warning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kinda like this site

Also. That episode of House where it turns out he was hallucinating the whole time and the lipstick is really his pill bottle... I actually thought that was pretty well written.

Lastly. For a short while, many many years ago... I might have thought it was called "Planet Parenthood"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
at all inclined.

Or if you want to play tennis.