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48 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 1
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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Nice, friendly, masculine Italian guy. Have pretty traditional views as to what a relationship should be, but other than that I'm a progressive thinker. Looking to start with a date... but am open to ltr if chemistry is right... and that's where it naturally leads. And if all that evolves is a friendship, well that's great too.

Ex New Yawka... Living in New Haven CT for the past six years. May wind up back in NYC in a couple of years, or possibly Boston. Very close with friends and family... Looking to add one more to my inner circle. I'm drawn to funny, smart, kind and confident guys. I understand that the love of your life might not live in a five mile radius, so I'm open to meeting guys that require a greater reach... but within a reasonable driving distance (anywhere between NYC and Boston).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Always seeking to improve it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Humble. I am the best at it. My humility is legend!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My lack of follicle pigmentation
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: His Dark Materials (All Three), Geek Love, The Great Gatsby, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Pride & Prejudice, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time, Jane Eyre....

Movies: Kill Bill (Both), Inglorious Bastards... Actually all Tarantino, Chicken Run, Bound, The Hours, The Descendants, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Bigger Longer & Uncut, Pride & Prejudice, Frailty, Ordinary People, Beautiful Thing, so many others...

TV: Shameless, Game of Thrones, Nurse Jackie, Girls, Mad Men, Episodes, Bob's Burger, Futurama... and Judge Judy (don't judge me!)

Food: Too much good stuff to even attempt.

Music: Gossip (Beth Ditto), Adele (how could you not), Amy Winehouse (poor Amy), Some good pop... Sia, Morrissey, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Bruno Mars, The Cliks, Standards... Classical. This is another endless list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Friends (Except Kirk)
My Internal Organs
My List Making Ability
The Word "My"
Frozen Grapes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Prone to relaxing at home, but often out to dinner with friends... though always open to suggestions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm very sentimental.
You should message me if
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All hail hypno-toad.