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40 M San Diego, CA

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My self-summary
I have been online since online was called BBS and internet was called FidoNet. I lived in Seattle most of my life where I soon discovered the mad computer skills I had developed from being a SysOp lent themselves well to a job as a computer administrator. I created a network for them and that grew my job to Network Engineer, then Electronic Arts came calling for a dev support position, then their QA dept stole me for their Lead QA Tech. Then Microsoft stole me for a little project most people never heard of called Windows 98.. and this all sets off a chain reaction where bigger and better companies and salaries start throwing themselves at me.

Right now I'm taking a break... I was originally going for a degree in Microbiology, why am I still working in communications protocols?! Oh... right... $$$

So while techniclaly my life has direction, it's not the one I originally wanted and I think that's where the rub is for me... I'd love to go back to Microbiology but each year that passes makes it less likely.

I am a strange creature. I lack the genetic code that makes other men enjoy spectator sports and beer. I love women though so thankfully that part of my normal male drives is intact.

I enjoy a culturally relativistic perspective. Meaning, I don't judge others based on my set of rules but I try to understand them in their own context. This is an awesome way to see people because if you do... you realize there's no evil people out there, just people doing what they feel is best for themselves and those they care about.

For myself I am an atheist and a first generation Mexican American. I'm an idealist and I very much believe in the rule of law that makes the USA a free country, but I've seen so many examples of the opposite with the Bush administration that I wonder if the rule of law still exists... or if it ever existed except in the mind of naive young idealists like myself.

I am optimistic, irreverant, and crustacean
What I’m doing with my life
I was lucky to have more interests than time to explore them, I am fascinated by all the sciences but particularly: Anthropology, Sociology, Psychology, Cosmology, Physics, Genetics, Bio-informatics, Chemistry, Computer Programming, Evolutionary mechanisms, Theoretical Physics, Poetry, Art, Music, Philosophy... more than I can name here.

So what does one do when there is no shortage of genuine interest? One pursues ones which will allow one to maximize one's earning potential! :D I'm still in computers even though jobs keep getting outsourced out from under me. I'd prefer something more stable.
I’m really good at
Communication, protocols and interpersonal...
The first things people usually notice about me
Smarter than the average bear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A: Permutation City by Greg Egan A: Prey by Michael Crichton A: Blood Music by Greg Bear A: Teranesia by Greg Egan A: Schild's Ladder by Greg Egan A: The Forge of God by Greg Bear A: Thistledown Series by Greg Bear A: Quarantine by Greg Egan A: Antibodies by Charles Stross

B: The Prince of Darkness by John Carpenter B: The Thing by John Carpenter B: Jurassic Park by Steven Spielberg B: The Shining by Stanley Kubrick B: Miracle Mile B: Last Night B: The Quiet Earth B: Donnie Darko B: Twin Peaks: Fire walk with me B: Alien B: Office Space B: Dark City B: The Arrival

C: * by Tori Amos C: * by Eric B and Rakim C: Everybody is doing it... by Cranberries C: Norah Jones C: Blackeyed Peas C: Mocean Worker

D: Thai Food D: Mexican Food D: Chinese Food D: Vietnamese Food D: Indian Food
The six things I could never do without
Family Support A communications device A computer An internet connection Good company Someone who accepts me as I am
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The truth behind the news... I can't help but wonder... what's REALLY going on?
On a typical Friday night I am
More than willing to stay home cause all the entertainment options I might enjoy are packed. I would find something fun to do away from the crowds or be a homebody and do something fun indoors
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't sleep well at nights
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
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I sound like someone you'd like to get to know better