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33 Charlottesville, VA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:57pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Honest, loyal, rational, sarcastic, realistic, analytical, romantic (utterly hopelessly, and losing even more hope everyday), logical, corny, intelligent and last but not least, I know when to use these personality traits appropriately (except for the "hopeless part... I still haven't found a single use for that).

I'm largely a homebody but I enjoy going out with friends/significant others for food and beers. Sharing a meal and drinks with someone when good conversation is involved is one of my favorite things. Photography entertains me. Going to concerts of bands I really enjoy is fun. If I adore someone, I usually like being involved in the things they love to do.

I spend a lot of time on the computer. I'm on it all day at the office and then when I get home I'm often in front of it for a large portion of the night playing video games and listening to music, sometimes editing pictures.

I prefer texting to talking on the phone. I'm a big fan of emoticons and probably use them too much but I like to think that my good spelling and grammar (even when texting) makes up for that.

I really don't know that I can say I have a "type". Generally I like quick-witted guys. Sarcasm is a plus and I don't want a guy who wants someone to make all their decisions for them. I want them to be capable of good decisions on their own. Ability to make me laugh is necessary. I like it when the guy I'm with dishes out lots of good-natured shit and laughs when I throw it right back at him.

I love beer (especially IPAs and stouts/porters) and red wines (malbec and tempranillo).

I hate plastic blister packs. Hate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Killin' it.

More specifically? No idea other than working the 9 to 5 and paying the bills.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Um, video games? That's helpful, huh?


Making people laugh by using varied types of humor

Cooking (decent at?)

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One person answered that they noticed my butt... I got these adjectives from another interviewee:

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy Stephen King books. I haven't been reading as often as I used to, but I'm trying to get back into it right now. I recently finished reading "The Sticks" by my friend, Andy Deane. It's only taken me over 12 years to get around to it... I just finished reading "Ender's Game". In plenty of time for the movie - Hooray!

I'd have to say that David Lynch is probably my favorite director. I adore the Twin Peaks series and even the soundtracks for both the series and the "Twin Peaks - Fire Walk With Me" movie. "The Crow" is a great movie and "Office Space", because it partially mirrors my work life. I love "The Shining". I've never worked food service, but "Waiting" is still a painful reminder of my retail days of yore. Tucker and Dale vs. Evil is in my top five. I've never watched that movie without crying from laughter. I also love the movie Session 9. Almost everyone I've asked about it hasn't seen it and I usually try to force it upon them.

I don't watch that much TV but I grew up on MacGyver and I really enjoyed Firefly. Doctor Who is a current favorite and the first season of Dexter was pretty killer (see what I did there).

My musical taste varies greatly. I like Pantera, They Might Be Giants, Steve Vai, Todd Rundgren, Adrian Belew, Nirvana, Type O Negative, Drain STH, Sugar, Ben Folds, Carbon Leaf, Outkast, Eminem, Devin Townsend, most things Mike Patton related (especially Faith No More, Mr. Bungle, and Tomahawk), Nick Cave, The Pixies, Tenacious D, Stone Temple Pilots, The Dresden Dolls, The Refreshments, Roger Clyne and the Peacemakers, and a slew of others.

I'm not sure if I have a favorite type of food, but I enjoy Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Indian. Not a huge fan of most Chinese or Thai but I will eat it if the mood strikes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
... Oh, that's not the kind of answer you were looking for?

Well. Shit.

Then I'd have to say:

Good food/beers with friends
Sense of purpose, even a manufactured one like a "job"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This is rarely the same from day to day...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home listening to music and playing video games. Don't be jealous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wouldn't you like to know!
You should message me if
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You honestly think we have things in common and could have a decent conversation and you're willing to hang out with no expectations.