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39 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:42pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have a gruff exterior and a never-ending supply of inappropriate humor. But inside I'm kind of a softy. If you try to say that around me, however, I'll deny it vehemently, make jokes about being a complete asshole, and blush a little.

I like to travel. I like to build things. I tend to combine volunteer work (mostly disaster recovery) with my travels, which allows me to travel for months or years at a time. I also spend 2 months in the desert most years.
What I’m doing with my life
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After five years working for a start-up, I spent almost a decade alternating between contracting and traveling. In 2014 I decided to take a full-time position and stick around Seattle for a few years before I leave on my next adventure.

I am currently on the board of a local non-profit and spend a significant amount of my time throughout the year producing and organizing fund-raising events for local organizations. When I'm not doing that, I'm typically snowboarding, hiking, riding motorcycles, attending live music performances, or sitting at a bar with my friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm awesome at coming across as an asshole with my incredibly politically incorrect sense of humor. I can often be used as a preventative against awkward silences because I rarely, if ever, shut my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is the bullshit that is spewing out of my mouth at the moment. If they catch me in one of my rare, silent moments (usually while I'm taking a swig of my PBR or J&C) they tend to notice my septum piercing or my excessive facial hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've noticed that I don't tend to read books much any more. Most of my reading tends to be mostly articles from selected (mostly tech/engineering, political, and business) online publications.

I have a difficult time with suspension of disbelief. So, I find most movies only mildly entertaining. The movies I do tend to enjoy are based on real-life events (mob films, documentaries) and/or that deal with societal issues (dystopian and punk cinema). I also have a huge place in my heart for Pixar and Martin Scorsese movies.

I'm all over the place in music, but if I must narrow it down then I would say I listen mostly to ska, punk and funk. If I actually dance (when I'm drunk) it is to breaks, boom swing, or funky house. Most of the live shows I've seen lately have been bands from my youth that I don't really listen to anymore - thrash metal and old industrial bands. Honestly, if it is live music, I'll go to just about anything.

Food. Fine. I admit it. I've been a vegetarian for 18 years, but I don't care what you or anybody else eats. Mexican and Thai food are my favorites. I also like the smell of bacon and any vegetarian that tells you otherwise is a fucking liar.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Travelling, people, a project to work on, whiskey, access to the internet, and music. Not necessarily in that order. And often combined.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The last decade has been a mixture of contracts and extended traveling. Last year I made a promise to myself that I would stay with my current job for a minimum of 3 years to decide if i wanted to buy a house. It has only been 9 months and I'm already dealing with the travel limitations a full-time position imposes. So, I'm thinking, "Do I want to buy a house or spend 3-5 years traveling?" It isn't as easy of a decision as it seems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depending on how my week has been, I'm either enjoying the solitude and quiet of my apartment or I'm out drinking with my friends. Now that winter is finally here, it seems that I've been using Friday night to clean my apartment, enjoy a quiet night, and get to sleep early so that I can wake up at 6am to leave for the mountains.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Although I do it somewhat regularly, I absolutely hate going to things (events, camping, hiking, etc) alone. I prefer to share experiences with friends.
You should message me if
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we have similar interest. Specifically regarding music as none of my friends share my taste in music.

Actually, you should also message me if we have nothing in common. I love experiencing new things (shows, events, activities, etc) and enjoy sharing my interests with others.

And, of course, any of the following (separately or combined):
If you like to drink.
If you like snowboarding.
If you like to debate (philosophy/politics).
If you like going to punk shows.
If you like to snuggle (my favorite pastime).
If you have a motorcycle or want to ride on the back of one.
If you like to travel.