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39 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 13
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I like to travel. I like to build things. I tend to combine volunteer work (mostly disaster recovery) with my travels, which allows me to travel for months or years at a time. I also spend 2 months in the desert most years.
I am currently on the board of a local non-profit and spend a significant amount of my time throughout the year producing and organizing fund-raising events for local organizations. When I'm not doing that, I'm typically snowboarding, hiking, riding motorcycles, attending live music performances, or sitting at a bar with my friends.
Oh, and the other 20% of my wardrobe is a black DPW hoodie.
And then there is the facial hair and piercings. I have those, too.
I have a difficult time with suspension of disbelief. So, I find most movies only mildly entertaining. The movies I do tend to enjoy are based on real-life events (mob films, documentaries) and/or that deal with societal issues (dystopian and punk cinema). I also have a huge place in my heart for Pixar and Martin Scorsese movies.
I'm all over the place in music, but if I must narrow it down then I would say I listen mostly to ska, punk and funk. If I actually dance (when I'm drunk) it is to breaks, boom swing, or funky house. Most of the live shows I've seen lately have been bands from my youth that I don't really listen to anymore - thrash metal and old industrial bands. Honestly, if it is live music, I'll go to just about anything.
Food. Fine. I admit it. I've been a vegetarian for 22 years, but I don't care what you or anybody else eats. Mexican and Thai food are my favorites. I also like the smell of bacon and any vegetarian that tells you otherwise is a fucking liar.
Actually, you should also message me if we have nothing in common. I love experiencing new things (shows, events, activities, etc) and enjoy sharing my interests with others.
And, of course, any of the following (separately or combined):
If you like to drink.
If you like snowboarding.
If you like to debate (philosophy/politics).
If you like going to punk shows.
If you like to snuggle (my favorite pastime).
If you have a motorcycle or want to ride on the back of one.
If you like to travel.
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