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AgainAnOptimist

63 Pasadena, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 53–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
FYI, I'm better looking, younger and taller in person ;-)

Life is a challenge and complicated, but nothing compared to love and finding the partner that can experience it with you in a way that makes life have its greatest meaning. I am looking for that partner.

Am I someone special? I think I am as special as they come. I think of myself as an intelligent man that connects to life in a unique way. I see deeply and my gift has been to observe and understand life and love in a way that only my mind can do. I am a rare and special man that wants to share my profound love of life and joy in living it with that also rare woman that is looking for a deep connection to a life partner, a soul mate, a companion to traverse eternity.

The woman that connects with me will be the most important part of my world. She will be like a rare and priceless artifact that I will cherish and care for until my dying day. Our journey is soon to begin and oh what a journey it will be. Joy and happiness, laughter and exaltation will be the cornerstones of a life of meaning and fulfillment. There is so much to experience and so little time, let’s not waste a moment.

I like to be totally honest and to the point, maybe with a touch of sarcasm to be playful. OK, I love sarcastic wit. I'm self-confident and looking for someone who knows how to banter. Repartee anyone?

Intelligence seems to be of some importance to the equation, so if it matters to you, I think it is the how and what we appreciate as well as our ability to see things in a similar way and understand each other that is the intelligence that matters. Can we get each other?

Nature is a big attraction to me, hence my pond in the back yard. An attractor of birds, the spectacle can be amazing at times. Surprising the variety of birds and other wildlife that shows up in my backyard.

I love technology and have been making my own desktop computers since the end of the 80’s. I like to play with computers and create things with them (in particular these days mix tapes, now on CD). I have a Dell laptop running Mac OSX. Fun. I find all our current technology to be mind boggling. It is all magic to me. Amazing what we as humans have discovered and created.

I'm a collector of music and movies. 4,000+ vinyl records, and a ridiculous number of digital albums and movies.

My love of conversation is what gives me the greatest joy especially when I have someone to talk to that truly gets me. I'm looking to find that lady who likes being treated like one and yet has a happy child inside. Looking for a confident and happy woman who knows that we are who we are and we are not going to change each other, rather we will have the rest of our lives to truly get to know each other.

I'm looking for a lady that likes to share her thoughts but has no expectations about how I might experience her point of view. Rather, she is intrigued and often amazed by how I perceive her. I am a lover of life and people are one of my most favorite things.

Although I tend toward being a homebody, I’m up for an adventure. And then of course there is dinner out, a movie, a show. I love 'live' almost anything. If you want to take the lead, I’ll gladly follow.

I love rock music, and music to me is one of life's greatest personal experiences. I do have a varied eclectic taste in music and if it is good, I’m going to like it. I appreciate the effort.

I am a mirror. I have my best moments around positive and energetic people. I may not be the life of the party, but I am an avid contributor. I don’t like to be around whiners and complainers.

I think that there are many connections that we have with each other, and the more we connect, the closer we feel. I want to be very close. I will show you a man that cares about being in the moment and knows that it is the most incredible moment we have, (and it is right now) and if you are with me then paradise is even better than I thought. Our reality is ours to make, shall we make it together?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking to continue being happy and true to myself.
Working hard in my career.
Keeping everything working. I like things to work.
Playing lots of music.
Having fun and being fun.
Reinventing and rediscovering myself for the new chapter.
Not seeing enough movies, I'm way behind. I like company, want to go to a movie?
Looking for love, obvious huh?
Dealing with the death of my 18 year old kitty.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sarcasm, but I'm holding back at the moment. Maybe I'll treat you to more when you get to know me better.
Paying close attention. I'm a great observer. I'm detailed at how I look at and discuss things.
Working with lots of people.
Listening, keeping my train of thought, being mindful.
Being empathetic, compassionate, compromising.
Being supportive, realistic, open minded, imaginative.
Computers and all that goes into making and using them.
Very handy with my hands. Skillful and technical.
Reading body language. Projecting good body language.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women notice my hair's ringlets
I have an intensity about me.
My high energy (still feel like I'm 25)
I like to smile.
I like to talk.
My good posture.
My sarcastic wit.
You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A slow reader, I tend toward movies and theater. I do love fantasy and Terry Brooks and the Shanara series is a favorite.

I love movies and you don't want my opinion because there are few I dislike. But some of my favorites; Groundhog Day, Galaxy Quest, The 7 Faces of Dr. Lao, Star Trek (the new ones), Lord of The Rings, Harry Potter (all of them). Lets just say SiFi and Fantasy are at the top of my list and then there are all the deep, moody, and emotional ones. (I like the ones that make me cry) Did you say chick flick, I'm in.

My favorite play is "The Drowsy Chaperone" and all the others. I love theater. Musicals, comedy, and drama.

Food, did someone say food? Love good food of any kind. I like all that is popular these days and I'm sure what you would enjoy, I would too. Chicken cooked about anyway and rice is on the top of my list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Friendship
Great food
Great conversation
Being happy
and maybe you.
Six is just not anywhere close to enough, so here are some more;
Air conditioning
Coffee - black and keep it coming
My best friend, and I don't have you yet, I'm looking hard for you
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The moment, and it is now. Lets stay in it together.

The point, what was it again?

How to get replies from the women I contact here.

The addictive nature of checking on this site.

Why do so many of the women here lie about their age?

Why do so many women post 10 year old pictures of themselves?

The whole height conundrum.

The total lack of normal human decorum online.

Will I ever find my true love?

Will I see world peace in my lifetime?

How on earth can I win the Lottery if I don't play?

How to make the perfect soft boiled egg?

Should I stay or should I go? OK, I'm being way too silly now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the beginning of two days off work. Good food, good wine and hopefully good companionship.

I like going out on Friday night to dinner. Maybe a movie, but I don't do that without a partner. Don't like doing it alone. At home I'll make myself dinner and watch a movie from my library of movies or from the DVR, or Netflix or from one of the many movie channels. On the other hand I love rock concert videos and I have a bunch. Never get tired of them. Music is the key to the soul. (Dancing in the living room to some great jazz)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should have read this yesterday
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think of yourself as beautiful inside and out.

You are clever and are looking for a man that is clever as well.

You have a good body and great legs and like to wear high heels to show off your legs.

You have a good sense of humor. Or descent, or have one.

You have no crazy height issue with me being 5'7". FYI. I do wear a high heeled dress boot that gets me to 5'9" if that means anything to you? (probably not!)

I remind you of your deep inner dreams of a life with someone that will connect with you on all of the most important levels.

If you want passion and a caring lover and be able to always be yourself as we make all our dreams come true.

Or simply because you think I might be your cup of tea, or coffee, as the case may be.

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