Let me start off by saying the divorce is not yet a done deal. I feel that chapter of my life is now totally in my past, but if you have some requirement of a time of waiting, I'm sorry, but I'm not your guy, at least for now. I am emotionally available and a happy soul. You know what they say about bygones?
Life is a challenge and complicated, but nothing compared to love and finding the partner that can experience it with you in a way that makes life have its greatest meaning. I am looking for that partner.
Am I someone special? I think I am as special as they come. Do I have a library of knowledge in my brain? Maybe, but not that I have learned from books. I’m not a book smart person, my gift has been to observe and understand life and love in a way that only my mind can do. I am a unique and special man that wants to share my profound love of life and joy in living it with that also rare woman that is looking for a deep connection to a life partner, a soul mate, a companion to traverse eternity.
The woman that connects with me will be the most important part of my world. She will be like a rare and priceless artifact that I will cherish and care for until my dying day. Our journey is soon to begin and oh what a journey it will be. Joy and happiness, laughter and exaltation will be the cornerstones of a life of meaning and fulfillment. There is so much to experience and so little time, let’s not waste a moment.
I like to be totally honest and to the point, maybe with a touch of sarcasm to be playful. OK, I love sarcastic wit. I'm self-confident and looking for someone who knows how to banter. Repartee anyone?
Intelligence seems to be of some importance to the equation, so if it matters to you, my IQ is 123. I think it is the how and what we appreciate as well as our ability to see things in a similar way and understand each other that is the intelligence that matters. Can we get each other?
Nature is a big attraction to me, hence my pond in the back yard. An attractor of birds, the spectacle can be amazing at times. Surprising the variety of birds and other wildlife that shows up in my backyard.
I love technology and have been making my own desktop computers since the end of the 80’s. I like to play with computers and create things with them (in particular these days mix tapes, now on CD). I have a Dell laptop running Mac OSX. Fun. I find all our current technology to be mind boggling. It is all magic to me. Amazing what we as humans have discovered and created.
I'm a collector of music and movies. 4,000+ vinyl records, and a ridiculous number of digital albums and movies.
My love of conversation is what gives me the greatest joy especially when I have someone to talk to that truly gets me. I'm looking to find that lady who likes being treated like one and yet has a happy child inside. Looking for a confident and happy woman who knows that we are who we are and we are not going to change each other, rather we will have the rest of our lives to truly get to know each other.
I'm looking for a lady that likes to share her thoughts but has no expectations about how I might experience her point of view. Rather, she is intrigued and often amazed by how I perceive her. I am a lover of life and people are one of my most favorite things.
Although I tend toward being a homebody, I’m up for an adventure. And then of course there is dinner out, a movie, a show. I love 'live' almost anything. If you want to take the lead, I’ll gladly follow.
I love rock music, and music to me is one of life's greatest personal experiences. I do have a varied eclectic taste in music and if it is good, I’m going to like it. I appreciate the effort.
I am a mirror. I have my best moments around positive and energetic people. I may not be the life of the party, but I am an avid contributor. I don’t like to be around whiners and complainers.
I think that there are many connections that we have with each other, and the more we connect, the closer we feel. I want to be very close. I will show you a man that cares about being in the moment and knows that it is the most incredible moment we have, (and it is right now) and if you are with me then paradise is even better than I thought. Our reality is ours to make, shall we make it together?