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46 F San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:11pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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The short: kind, fit, present, happy, deep, healthy, spiritual-not-religious, sensual, nature-loving, warm, loving, devoted parent, authentic, grounded, excellent communicator, and responsible woman seeks male counterpart.

Eckhart Tolle's words resonate with me - to paraphrase: "A relationship doesn't exist to make you happy; it exists to make you conscious." That's a journey I want to take with my future beloved!

Best-friends-AND-trust-respect-loyalty-AND-passion CAN all coexist. ...and I'm here calling in the man who has the capacity to go there with me now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being. Loving. Learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being present and loving. Making raw chocolate and other tasty raw foods.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm genuine. Can be wickedly funny. But I'm generally sweet. With some spice.
Ok, I hear about my eyes or smile. Really, they're just eyes and lips and teeth, and as miraculous as the human body is, the being that I am inside this nifty container is much more relevant.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Fresh, delicious, organic and raw. Like me :-)

Tolle, Rumi, Deida, Chodron, Williamson, Dyer, Chopra...also books on personal / spiritual growth, conscious parenting, neurophysiology, and health.

TV: don't own one. But I do sometimes entertain myself watching shows on my laptop.

Music: eclectic, not mainstream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six schmix.

Being present. Love. My children, my family. Sensuality. Nature. Spirituality. Sexuality. Being. People with whom I share love. Tantra. Humor. My brain. Laughter. Friendship. Dance. Loving touch. Creativity. Energy in all it's forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- ceasing thinking
- being present
- continuing to grow as a human being on this amazing planet, getting to have this amazing life experience
- continuing to grow so as to be the absolute best mother I can be from an awareness that parenting is a deeply spiritual path,
- noticing beauty and goodness
- Discovering / being discovered by the man I'm meant to be with (now that I'm finally ready to be loving relationship)
- when I can next do those activities that make my heart and body sing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my daughter, or with friends, heading to hot springs, out to dance, going to nature. Or just relaxing, aaaaahhhhhh the end of the workweek...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm happy.

Sometimes, on my way to my car, I run my shopping cart in the parking lot and hop on...

I have a very keen sense of smell, and appreciate people's natural, clean scent over chemical perfumes/colognes/deo.

I know how to use power tools. I have felled trees.

It would be a bonus if you are familiar with HAI, Mankind Project (MKP), The Good Men Project, Ecstatic Dance, Conscious Dance, Tantra, Acro-Yoga...and/similar....

My life goal is to embody Agape.
You should message me if
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...if you got goosebumps, or the universe whispered in your ear, "she's the one..."