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47 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 21
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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The short: kind, fit, present, happy, deep, healthy, spiritual-not-religious, sensual, nature-loving, warm, loving, devoted parent, authentic, grounded, excellent communicator, and responsible woman seeks male counterpart.

Best-friends-AND-trust-respect-loyalty-AND-passion CAN all coexist. ...and I'm here calling in the man who has the capacity to go there with me.

Kindness, thoughtfulness, curiosity, honesty, consideration, caring, responsibility, dependability ...those qualities make a man DAMN sexy. (And, I suspect, a woman as well.) Genuine interest in and desire to learn as much as possible about the woman he's interacting with, wanting to know the heart and soul of her, and fully capable of sharing the whole and true man that he is - that is a man with whom I'll walk the journey.

I love being physically active, preferably in nature. It nourishes me deeply. There is kind of dance that I absolutely love, Ecstatic Dance, so completely fun, it's - if the music is good- truly ecstatic at times. Meaning, I get into the zone...we were made to move, that's for sure!
What I’m doing with my life
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Being. Loving. Learning. Moving my body. Doing all that while joyfully raising my fabulous daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being present and loving. Dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If finding this out ever makes it to my priority list, I'll ask people. Don't think that'll happen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: Fresh, delicious, organic and raw. Like me :-)

Books, shows, movies- any that nourish or feed me in some way, either teaching me something I'm interested in, evoking emotions, or showing me beauty.

Music: eclectic, not mainstream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six schmix.

Being present. Love. My children, my family. Sensuality. Nature. Being creative. Spirituality. Being. People with whom I share love. Humor. My brain. Laughter. Friendship. Dance. Loving touch. Creativity. Energy in all it's forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- ceasing thinking
- being present
- continuing to grow as a human being on this amazing planet, getting to have this amazing life experience
- continuing to grow so as to be the absolute best mother I can be from an awareness that parenting is a deeply spiritual path,
- noticing beauty and goodness
- Discovering / being discovered by the man I'm meant to be with (now that I'm finally ready to be loving relationship)
- when I can next do those activities that make my heart and body sing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my daughter, or with friends, heading to hot springs, out to dance, going to nature. Or just relaxing, aaaaahhhhhh the end of the workweek...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm happy. Often. And when I'm not, that's okay. I can be with it. Emotional states are like the weather, temporary, so I'm not too attached to any one state.

That I hope you, dear man, who is here looking for love, have done your work.

That you've reflected on how you contributed to past relationships not working out. That you have discovered what, in yourself, needed to grow, change or be let go of so you could be truly capable of mature love. That you have devoted some time learning about how to love well, communicate well, and know yourself . That you have maybe figured out how to intimately know and love the complex, fascinating, delicious creature that is a loving woman, loved.

I've done all that, am still doing so, and will surely continue to learn, grow and evolve for the rest of my days.

Sometimes, on my way to my car, I run my shopping cart in the parking lot and hop on...

I have a very keen sense of smell, and appreciate people's natural, clean scent over chemical perfumes/colognes/deo.

I know how to use power tools. I have felled trees.

It would be a bonus if you are familiar with HAI, Mankind Project (MKP), The Good Men Project, Ecstatic Dance, Conscious Dance, Tantra, Acro-Yoga, communing with nature...things that move your body, mind and spirit...just as fabulous if you can introduce me to things I have not yet discovered.

My life goal is to embody Agape. Lofty, I know. I'm so darn imperfect. I'm so okay with that.
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