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40 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 29
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm going to just be explicit and spell out what I'm looking for and what I have to offer.

We would make an interesting mix:
You--sexy, happy, adventurous, cute, nerdy, smart, open minded, physically active, funny, sapiosexual and enthusiastic.
Me--well, I'm the same.

I have a high sex drive and a high IQ. I like to watch documentaries and lectures about topics ranging from improvisation to the singularity. I'm just as comfortable at a play party as a meditation retreat. I've got a serious animal side, but I can also get dressed to the nines and hold my own at a swanky affair. I am complex and I contain multitudes. I'm really kind and a real devil.

I'm looking for a man who will whisper sweet nothings into my ear about quantum theory and how he can't wait to get me home to bend me over the bed....

I'm looking for a man with stamina, a kind and open heart, who can also get all philosophical and talk for hours about evolution.

I want to fall in love. I want a relationship with someone who deserves my admiration, my loyalty, my respect and my desire. I'm a great girlfriend. I'm generous and loving. I'm independent and capable.

I am discerning. Just because I'm taking a risk here and revealing that sex is important to me doesn't mean that I'm an easy conquest. I have options and I'm quite picky. Don't assume because I'm passionate that I'm undiscriminating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Filling up my passport with exotic stamps.
Celebrating the best circle of friends imaginable.
Psychonautic explorations.
Founding a new company that will give you invaluable insights into yourself and others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living luxuriously, making big art and finding the fun.
Exploring the world, traveling solo.
Seeing both sides of the story.

Making people feel special.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been called a gateway drug.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Game theory and social dynamics.
Art projects I'm in the middle of.
Beats and rhymes.
Hot springs.
Should I buy those shoes?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are happy, hot and hung.*
You are brainy and you've got your shit together.
You are a traveler, not a tourist.
You're in touch with your bonobo nature.
You are single and interested in a relationship.

You have a photo in your profile! If you don't have a photo I won't respond.

You can actually write a compelling first message. (Hint: "How are you?" or "nice pics" aren't all that interesting.)

You actually want to go out on a date. I don't want to trade emails forever.

*ok, take a deep breath. I borrowed this phrase from a girl friend.... and well, yeah.... I care. Listen, guys, I don't need a porn star dude, but better than average is appreciated. :)