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29 Dillsburg, PA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been a long time since I rocked and rolled, so here are the basics:

A. I am currently in a committed, open, polyamorous relationship. We love eachother, but we also love others. If that offends you, then your time should be spent elsewhere.

2. I am looking for a reasonably close-by source(s) of and receptacle(s) for affection, companionship, and company. Sex is nice (and I am very sexual) but not required. Short-term is assumed, but if something happens to blossom, I'll gladly accept it.

III. I'm a proud gamer. I write my own table-top games, develop my own role-playing systems, and will sink hours into the right form of electronic entertainment. For example: I recently spent a total of roughly 34 hours over the course of a week or so on a "quick" game of Civilization V. I won in 1952, via diplomac votes, by a huge margin.

Δ. I am an avid reader and writer of narrative fiction. See below for details.

5. I am more of a pansexual person than a bisexual one, but I have been hurt very badly by men that I've dated in the past, so I will be very critical and particular about dating someone who identifies as a cisgendered male. Sorry if that offends you, but it doesn't mean I'm not worth a try.

F. If I've visited you many times or "liked" you without contacting you, I likely have no idea what to say. All that I have to offer anyone are words, so finding the right ones before sharing them is important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently, I'm working for an international shipping conglomerate whom I despise, but will gladly accept their money. On my way to attending business school. I'm also currently writing two novels (a dark, modern fantasy based around Celtic/Druidic changling/Fae lore and collection of short stories based on the diaries and dreams of patients in an insane asylum). If you'd like to read a sample, just let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, singing, gaming, science, psychology, entertaining, and listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair, eyes, voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Count of Monte Cristo, IT, The Gunslinger, any of R. A. Salvatore's or Ed Greenwood's Forgotten Realms novels, Lord of The Rings, Dracula, Stranger in a Strange Land, Tess of the d'Urbervilles, various RPG books (Shadowrun, D&D, nWoD, oWoD, BESM, GURPS, Warhammer).

Comics: Watchmen, Penny-Arcade, V for Vendetta, Cowboy-Ninja-Viking, Spawn, Fables, Sin City, Wanted, Darker Batman archs, Scott Pilgrim, Umbrella Acadamy, Bedlum.

Movies- Love Actually, Definitely Maybe, Serenity, Diehards 1&3, Star Wars, Star Trek: Next Gen films, Monty Python, Brazil, Forgetting Sarah Marshal, Braveheart, 300, all of the Marvel films since Spiderman, all Hannibal Lector films, Sex and the City, Dune, Willie Wonka's Chocolate Factory, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, many others.

TV Shows: Adventure Time, How I met Your Mother, Adventure Time, Archer, Adventure time, Sex and the City, Good Eats, True Blood, 30 Rock, Outlaw Star, Ouran Highschool Host Club, FLCL, Cowboy Bebop, Elfin Lied, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Grissom era CSI, Hung, Mythbusters, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Firefly, Star Trek: TNG, Tales of the Gun, Teen Titans, Gargoyles, Batman Beyond, many others (usually cartoons/anime).

YouTube Channels: ScourceFed, VlogBrothers, CrashCourse, Sexplanations, TobyGames, sxephil, SciShow, EpicMealTime, GoodEatsComplete.

Music- An odd mix of everything. Current playlist is all of Amanda Palmer's hits, before and after Dresden Dolls, along with some Chiptune and FLCL soundtracks to pick me up after Amanda starts making me sob uncontrollably.

Games: League of Legends, Chrono Trigger, Kingdom Hearts, Final Fantasy(ies), arcade style brawlers, The Elder Scrolls series, Magic: the Gathering, Minecraft, Mass Effect, Dragon Age, The Sims, Sid Meier's Civilization, Warhammer (RTS, Online, and Minis), Legend of Zelda, Secret of Evermore, Legend of Mana, Poke'mon, Mega Man, Risk, table-top RPGs of all stripes, many board games. Former WoW addict.

Food- Seafood, mostly; but so far I like every recipe of Alton Brown's. Current cooking experiments: Biscuits and Gravy, Chocolate Hazelnut cookies, Hummus and Cheese Quesadillas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1- Internet
2- Cast-Iron Skillet
3- Electric Kettle
4- Character sheets
5- Friends/Family
6- Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and anything, all the time. I liken my head to a giant electron cloud of thoughts. Valance electrons are on the surface and can be discussed or concentrated on. Many layers of thought reside under them and are in constant, chaotic motion until sufficient energy is expended to shuffle the shells and present new thoughts. Often these thoughts will outright replace the thoughts from the previous shell, causing me to forget what I was saying a moment ago or leave tea brewing on the kitchen counter for hours.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home alone, or working late, or running an RPG somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have too many secrets to choose one...I guess that is something personal. I'm more or less an open book when not posting things directly onto the internet. Ask and you will probably receive.
You should message me if
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Bonus points if you would like to play video-games while drinking hot tea/craft beer and watching anime.

Also, karaoke.