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52 Concord, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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New screen name.......I thought the old one sounded a bit rubeish......Although i still am happy and do like camping

Warning: Somewhat long winded profile ahead.

Here's the Cliff notes:

Fun, differently normal, happy, healthy, active, curious about everything, passionate about life, passionate about passion.

And the long version

I'm an educated professional, kind and respectful. I love the outdoors, bicycling, hiking, kayaking and snow sports. I also clean up well for the indoors. I love the wilderness and the wilds, its where I fulfill my spirituality. I have an insatiable curiosity about life, I love history and know far to much of my local history. I often ponder what life and the local environment was like here years ago and I'm working on a time machine so I can see if I accurately portrayed it all in my mind. I try to live a healthy sugar freeish balanced life and practice moderation in most things except I'm not so good at sitting still. There is just too much world to explore out there to be complacent. I've spent the last many years having a wonderful time raising our 2 children and enjoying the satisfaction of watching them be happy successful adults. I would have to say my greatest accomplishment in life (So Far) has been my marriage and my children. I've had a life of adventure and happiness and feel truly blessed.

Meyers Briggs ENFJ......if you're interested in that sort of thing

I'm in a very happy open relationship. We were monogamous for over 20 years and a few years ago realized we aren't going to live forever so lets make the best of it. Best decision ever!!! It's been a wonderful addition to a wonderful life. Mrs Me, Happy1046 would be happy to verify. We didn't step into this recklessly, many hours of self introspection and discussion got us to our happy place.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it everyday...well almost everyday, some are better than others but the meter definitely leans to the positive side. I have an insatiable curiosity about life, I'm always searching for the little and big things that make like so interesting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking healthy fresh food

Dog Whispering

Not acting my age.... In a good way

Lucid dreaming which can be exhausting sometimes

Reading maps but not being afraid to ask directions

Not being a flake, answering emails and actually meeting people who show interest
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm not good at writing about myself

I have all my hair.....and then some
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Not so much into novels but I did just finish a pretty comprehensive Steinbeck collection, amazing. I ran across a list of banned books recently and being the rebel without a clue that I am I'm working my way through and recently finished Catcher in the Rye and Catch 22. I've always liked Edward Abbey, I want to see the remoteness he writes so well about.... hmm maybe I do like novels? Next I really want to read Cheryl Strayeds book on her trek of the Pacific Coast Trail. Jon Krakauer, Politics ( I lean liberal but not quite commie) Travel and guide books. I love history and the natural world. I find Malcolm Margolins books on California Indians fascinating. I spend way to much of my reading time on the computer, political blogs and other interest.

Music: I've always been a lover of music but frustrated with the inability to make it also realizing I've never applied myself long enough to get good. Its amazing how a song can evoke emotion to the point of tears and the beautiful complexities that a good songwriter can create. I'm more of an Alt/Indie kind of guy....More of bands like Radiohead, Arcade Fire, Mazzy Star, The XX, Violent Femmes, Ill Ease,Vampire Weekend, Roderigo Y Gabriella for awesome acoustic guitar,Thievery Corporation, Blonde Redhead, Muse, Pomplamoose. Romeo Void, Bjork and The Sugarcubes, Sigor Ros for hot Icelandic chops. David Byrne and Neil Young are a couple of my all time favorites... and much more

Food: Spicy as hell Thai is my favorite then and all other Asian foods. Fish...I could live as a pescatarian

Shows: Daily Show..Yay.. Bill Maher Sopranos. Best series ever!
Cheesy reality cooking shows. I'm not much of a sports watcher, I'd rather play. PBS, NPR, Documentaries

Movies: Anything Coen Brothers, love Wes Anderson
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids

My Dogs

My Bikes


Going places I've never been, even if its a street in my city I've never been down. Little experiences all add up

My Wife,

Sex is fun!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why did OKCupid choose such a lame name for this website?

Colored Chalk

Flying Monkeys

What am I going to think next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun with friends and family. I like to entertain at home and enjoy cooking....or....on the road. Calistoga, Tahoe. Mountains and beaches, I love to travel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When my kids were young I rented Blue Velvet for movie night thinking it was a sequel to National Velvet. Nightmares ensued.....and I just made that story up

I've never eaten a Cheeseburger...I know, freakish......and that ones true

I think nerdy/geeky girls are cute.....Also true
You should message me if
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First of all sane would be nice...If you're happy and enjoy life.