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Ahnura

18 / F / bisexual / Single

Brighton, Michigan

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on high school
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am on a boat, sardonic, dry, nerdy, and a bit anti-climactic.

My Self-Summary

Alright, so cliché summery, here we go. I'm kind of, er, dry, usually. Not as in boring, more as in I get bored easily. I usually take a few seconds to evaluate something, and if I don't like it, I move on, which is kind of unfortunate in the dating world. Not that I'm unforgiving of flaws, just I base a lot on first impressions, I suppose.

I've had a lot of flings lately, and I'm kind of sick of it not going anywhere. My last serious relationship lasted about a year, but it was all the way back in January. Honestly, right now, I don't think that I'm in the mood for a relationship, but considering that I already had this up and might want it in the future, it makes no sense to take it down.

This is going to sound kind of odd, but I can't date anyone who's allergic to cats. I have a little gray cat named Gary and I wouldn't give her up for anyone.

Speaking of which, I love animals. I'm a vegetarian, but I'm not crazy about it. What I mean is, I won't think of you any less if you eat meat and I won't try to force my beliefs on you. Vegetarianism is a difficult lifestyle to live for most people, and if you decide to live it, it should be because you choose to and believe in the cause, not because you're forced, as such I believe for most things. I'm very into free expression.

Other than that, you should probably talk to me to get to know me; it's kind of odd trying to sum myself up in typing.

Edits that are needed...

So, straight up, let's get this entirely unnecessary and frankly undesired 'I bet you hear this all the time, but you're gorgeous' deal out of the way. If you e-mail me, logic says that you think I'm spicy, I get it, now let's avoid that particular conversation because it usually goes, "Wow, you're so beautiful."

"Thanks, you're pretty cute yourself."

"Thanks. So what's up?"

Why don't we talk about something interesting instead?

Anyway, if you do e-mail me and I don't reply immediately don't keep e-mailing me over and over. If I'm interested, I'll reply. One e-mail per person is enough. I'm not trying to sound bitchy, but I've been having problems with people e-mailing me if I don't reply to them.

Also, if you're old enough to be my parent, please don't contact me.

What I’m doing with my life

Other than finishing my final year in high school, I'm working at my parents bar as a waitress, and playing Quidditch (started a league at my school).

I’m really good at

Writing, drawing, singing, conversing (both talking and listening)

and I suck at Guitar, which I'm currently taking a class to learn.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my appearance, namely my hair, because it's almost white and I've heard my eyes a lot, but that's pretty standard. I mean, I don't know if anyone CAN notice anything else the first time they see a person, other than that, it depends on the day, my mood, and my dress.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Visual: Harry Potter, Of Mice and Men, Watchmen, The Catcher in The Rye, Lord of the Rings, 1984, Fahrenheit 451 and most other Ray Bradbury books, The Illustrated Man, for example.

Audio:My Chemical Romance (though I'm not a screaming fan girl, rest assured), MSI, Katy Perry, Coheed And Cambria, Me, You and Everyone We Know (I met their lead singer. He's so nice and they put on a great live show :]), The Beastie Boys, (some) Weezer, Lady Gaga (yeah, seriously I love her), Forgive Durden (especially Razia's Shadow, check it out, it's amazing), Panic at the Disco (Brenden Urie has the oddest voice that I've ever heard, plus, watching him sing is crazy. He puts a lot into it.), Bob Dylan, Bright Eyes, Owl City any cover that Darren Criss does other than that, a mix of a lot of different things. Anything but rap and country. I like music that is weird, basically.

Visual and Audio: Scrubs, The Uninvited, Haunting In Connecticut, Teen Titans, SLC Punk

Overall: Anything that makes me think.

Taste: Well, I'm not a big eater, but when I do eat, I love soy products, anything vegetarian. Tacobell is one of the only fast food places that I will order from and at an Italian restaurant, nothing is better than potato gnocchi.

The six things I could never do without

My Ipod, my car, heh hair products, um... other than that, I don't know.

Don't try to 'edit' my profile for things that I might want to put here. It's just annoying.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What the hell I am going to do with my life. The concept is flat-out frightening.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working or if I'm not working, trying to find someone to go places with or doing hair for extra cash. Or drawing or sleeping. Or sitting around doing nothing.

You should message me if

You should e-mail me if you're a combination of the below:

-You're cute

-You are intelligent.

-You use proper grammar

-You can hold decent conversation.

-You are tall, thin, have longish shaggy hair and wear thick-rimmed glasses.

-If you like really obscure, strange things and have an odd sense of humor.

-You were uncool before being uncool was cool.

-If you are on my favorites list.

You, however, should not e-mail me if:

-You have on your profile that books are stupid or something to that effect. Refusing to read is a very ignorant thing to do. I find it hard to believe that so many people lack just one book that they read and enjoyed. The mind is a hell of a thing to let rot.

-You cannot spell for the life of you (there's a great tool called spellcheck that'll help you BS this part too).

-You hunt.

-You use 'gay' as a synonym for 'stupid'.

-You're a "jock" type. If that's who you are, great, I don't think any less of you, but I am thoroughly unattracted to that kind of person physically, and usually mentally as well.

Either way, if you decide to message me, just let me ask one thing above all others: please don't 'wink' at me. I don't even know what to respond to that when I get a wink on this site. So... if you do choose to e-mail me, maybe just send me a message instead? Try to find one little thing, on this entire text that I've supplied, that we have in common and start a conversation about that instead.

I won't be angry if you send me a wink or anything, and even I just usually add the people that I like to my favorites list, but just save me the trouble of having to try to find some awkward response to a wink. I don't know how to respond to a wink. So just... hell, talk to me about Harry Potter or Kingdom Hearts or Watchmen or writing or music or which vegetable is my favorite or cats or anything really but for god's sake, I don't even know what to do with a wink!