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AhrenF81

31 / M / Straight / Single

Decatur, Georgia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:55am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
First of all, I'm a laid-back guy (does everyone on here say that?) who tries to let the small stuff slide and enjoy life as much as he can.
I'm an interesting mix of an introvert and an extrovert. I love being with people, especially small groups of friends, but I also like having a bit of quiet time when there's no pressure to socialize and I can just relax, though that doesn't mean being alone, it just means being non-active for a bit.
Its obvious because I'm on this site but I'm single and looking for a relationship. Even so, I'm happy with where I am. I am really enjoying life right now, working full-time and being involved with my church keeps me pretty busy and I like it that way.
I've lived in Oregon, Idaho, and Georgia. Though I lived most of my life in the Northwest, I'm really enjoying the Southeast-barbeque and football are just not the same out there!
People close to me describe me as kind, genuine, and funny and I hope they're right. I really like to take care of the people I love, whether its cooking dinner for them or just talking. My sense of humor is witty/sarcastic/silly.

I have loved the bit of travel I've done. Two years ago I went to Peru for a week, it was fantastic! I would love to explore Europe, particularly the British Isles and Italy.
So what am I looking for in a relationship? I would have to say compatibility, trust, honesty, and chemistry. I would also like the person I'm in a relationship with to be a friend, someone I can deeply trust and count on, no matter what.

The attributes that I find most attractive in a woman are a sweet smile, a good sense of humor (witty, sarcastic, a bit nutty), and genuine kindness.
While I'm not a Bible-thumper, my faith is very important to me and I would like my match to care about her faith as well.
I'm not obsessed with diet and exercise but I like to try and eat in a healthy way (most of the time, sometimes pizza, ice cream, and french fries are a necessity) and workout a few times a week.
If this sounds like you, send me an email!
What I’m doing with my life
Several things:) I just finished grad school last year and now I'm working as a chaplain in a retirement community but I hope to go back to school soon to pursue social work or counseling. When I'm not working I love to exercise, cook (I make amazing banana bread), read (Game of Thrones right now), watch movies, or just hang out with my friends.
I’m really good at
I am really good at making coffee, scrambling eggs, baking a few things, and, as cheesy as this sounds, I'm a really good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly smile, I guess. Never asked anyone about that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo was quite good. Now I'm enjoying A Dance with Dragons.

Movies: The Godfather, Star Wars, The Big Lebowski, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Anchorman, The Lord of the Rings, Gladiator, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, and many more.

Music: U2, Coldplay, Mumford and Sons, David Gray, Young the Giant, Muse, Adele, Radiohead, and a whole bunch of other stuff. I got to see Radiohead live a few months ago, it was fantastic!

Food: American, Italian, Thai, Mexican, Ethiopian-it just depends on my mood. I like just about everything food-wise.
The six things I could never do without
I will change the question to "six things I don't want to do without."
1. Family 2. Friends 3. Coffee 4. Exercise 5. Faith in God 6. Learning (Not ranked in order of importance)
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with great friends-watching a movie, having a beer at a local pub, or just hanging out.
If nothing social comes up, I will read a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I like cheesy pop music sometimes.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You like my profile and think we have some things in common.