I am polyamorous. I am currently seeing DelaineGates and jaeclectic. This keeps me fairly busy, but I am always open for new friends with common interests.
I am thoughtful, introverted, and erudite.
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I work for the federal government. I work and play with computers. I like reading and listening to interesting books. I've worked my way through the films of Akira Kurosawa (the 30 films he's directed; thank you, Criterion Collection), and am currently working my way through the Zatoichi films.
I've been helping out with BayCon, a literary science-fiction convention held Memorial Day weekend in Santa Clara. I may end up helping out with a couple other conventions in the area as well.
That I'm tall and hairy. Or my beard. Or my sense of humor, depending on the situation.
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