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47 • Sandpoint, ID • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 37–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and very serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Poorly)
I am working toward self-sufficiency in my life...this means I'm very careful with my money and very free with my time, knowledge and efforts.
I am learning how to grow, make, make-do and how to make money the least important thing in my life.
If we have a very high enemy rating, there is every chance I'll look at your profile, just to see what we could possibly disagree that strongly on. Also if you are a friend or someone I know in the real world don't assume I want to knock boots if I view your profile. Probably I am just curious.
If you are looking to get married/make babies/find your "SOUL MATE", please understand I am absolutely not a candidate for any of those activities.
I am here looking to make new friends in the area. I'm new to town and we have made some great connections but are always open for more.
To be completely honest, though I am in an open relationship, I am not actively seeking another lover at this time.
We are both looking for new friends, cohorts and partners in crime.
I'm looking to make tentative forays back into the world of other carbon based life forms. This finds me looking for new friends.
I am gardening, learning how to do anything I may want done in the future, learning to make and create and find the beauty and freedom I want in my life.
Writing the poems, and letting the poems write me. Letting my heart soar and my spirit get some sun on it's face.
Cooking, I know everyone says it, but in my case it's true.
Honesty, with myself and others.
spitting honey and razor rhymes.
My favorite friend-lover says..."she has an owl's eyes and looks at you like you are either food or the secret to the universe, if you are very lucky, she will look at you like you are both."
I read obscure pre-Christian texts from many cultures to better understand myself and mankind.
I read about self-sustaining lifestyles and "old-time" crafts, because I secretly hope society collapses and I get to live on my own little farm.
I read Poets, even the bad ones, even the ones I hate, because everyone has something to say.
I don't like a lot of Rap, like even less Pop. I like New-Age, Meditation for back-ground music. I like Early Country as opposed to New Country, which is just bad rock. I like Southern Rock, a lot of island music, and anything with a minimum of screaming guitar or whining hipsters.
I am a Netflix junkie. My tastes are across the map. I do have to warn you, I have been diagnosed with an allergy to chick flicks and may respond to the suggestion to watch Steel Magnolias with a counter suggestion to go on an interstate killing spree.
I love THAI, and I eat meat, a lot of it, not because I'm uneducated about vegan/vegetarianism, but as an informed, educated and deliberate choice. I don't care what you do or don't eat.
friends/lovers, and I prefer these be the same people.
a good pen and a handy journal
a comfortable place to sleep
If you are looking for someone to sew, can, garden, wrench on cars, make art, have a drink, go exploring or have adventures with.
If you've ever been turned on by a poem.
If you have never uttered the phrase "your gaze is terrifying".
You are interested in aquaponics, gardening, farm crafts, soap-making, poetry, crafts or the innate beauty of the world.
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