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34 Ann Arbor, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:26pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello world! (Or at least Ann Arbor.)

Every time I come on here, I have this image in my head of Jerry Seinfeld saying "And what is up with the whole online dating thing?" Profiles (and corporations) are not people! But... research seems to indicate we judge each other by our pictures and market our selves not unlike tobacco companies. Alas, it's hard to be in school and work full time and meet people. So, here I am, I suppose. And here you are! Hi! I'm Anthony.

If you can't make fun of yourself when you realize you're chasing your own tail, you're probably barking up the wrong tree. ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Solving problems and putting out fires.

Being active, outdoors

Being active, indoors.

Being myself, all the places.

Cat/house sitting for a friend. Did you know that there are cats that in real life, not just on the internet???
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to breath while drinking water.
Listening and being open minded.
Standing up to defend people, when others stand by just watching.
Staying up way past my bedtime.
Being perfect. (Ok... not true.)
Laughing at my own jokes. (Definitely true.)
Making other people laugh. (Again, true.)
Swing dance.
Traditional martial arts and philosophy.
Going in circles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yes, yes, I know, my hair is soft and fluffy. I'm more than my afro, why can't you see me for the person inside?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Political satire, Existential Scifi, documentaries, and Kungfu films with real Kung Fu chops. And yes, I'm man enough to admit that I watch the occasional rom-com. Come at me, bro.
NPR and The Pharrell Mashup by Pomplamoose and anything by Passion Pit, anything I can dance to... swing, jazz, pop, funk, soul, blues, electronic, fusion, etc. etc.
Thich Nhat Hanh, William Gibson, Morihei Ueshiba, Neil Stephenson, Sun Tsu, Miyamotoa Musashi, Howard Zinn
Thai, Vietnamese, Indian, Italian, Korean, Soul food, BBQ, etc...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good times.
Good people.
Good food.
Good beer.
Good health.
Good lovin'.
Good learnin'.
Stupid rules to break.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. much I love being outside, in the water, under the sun.

...racism, sexism, and other forms of injustice that plague our educational, economical, justice, and political systems, and our social fabric in general.

...movement, flow, and connectivity. This is how I think, how I see the world.

...boxes, and all the ways I've not fit into them, since birth. I'm multiracial, ambidextrous, and came out feet first!

...How much I miss teaching, and how our schools are a war zone, and the kids are losing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun! Usually doing some combination of the following: dancing, drinking good beer, listening to live music, eating good food, starting trouble, having a conversation with friends pretending to be really deep even though we all know the truth: nobody really knows what is going on....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As a native Detroiter, I have a soft spot for Faygo Peach, and Red Pop. What does Red Pop taste like, you might ask? Red.

Also, I no longer age. I've discovered the fountain of youth. No, seriously. Friends from college look at me and say, "Wait, how do you still look exactly like you did when we were in school together?" I think it's mostly just really strong ki from 20 years of doing martial arts.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. noticed from my pics that I like to get out and do things, and you'd like someone to join you on life's adventures. take care of yourself, body, mind, and spirit.