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44 F Alexandria, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me...
• Independent and confident yet open to sharing my life
• I believe in open, honest communication
• I’m comfortable in everything from the little black dress to lululemons, from business suits to my Cujo jersey
• I enjoy cooking and equally enjoy trying new restaurants, this is counterbalanced by my need to work out 3-4 times a week
• I love my house but I have a travel bug, been to 30+ countries with many more on my list to visit
• I’m emotionally very strong but can cry in any movie (name the movie and I likely found a reason to tear up!)
• I love my work, very ambitious and just started my own business but also value the importance of my personal life

…and you?
• Someone who can communicate. I don’t mean frequency although that’s nice but just being able to express himself honestly and openly yet know when to listen!
• Happy to eat my cooking as well as checking out the hole in the wall or the best restaurant in town
• Can hang out at home or hop on a plane with me
• Passionate about his work/career but equally passionate about what you do outside of work
• Someone who can take charge AND go with the flow (there is a fine line!!)
• Can debate about the latest election results or other serious topics while still being able to discuss what happened on the latest Game of Thrones or Walking Dead
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure out how I can travel more and work less...any suggestions?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...for you to find out... ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get many compliments on my lips/smile...
Confident. Passionate about things I care about...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: chic lit, I like reading fast easy books although recently have read heavier books like the Dragon Tattoo series and Game of Thrones
Movies: all kinds, drama, rocom, action, thrillers
Shows: Homeland, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Newsroom, Good Wife, Voice, Amazing Race
Music: 80s (dark 80s not poppy), grungy 90s, alternative rock. Favourite all time bands -U2, RHCPs, Depeche
Food: Chinese is my comfort food but I like everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my car
good authentic Chinese food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to win the lotto -picking my own numbers vs. quick pick??
How to ensure Rob Ford does NOT get re-elected...ok, now have to worry about the other Ford!
How to convince Obama to move to Canada???
Why do I get emails from people from all over the world?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...hanging out with friends or my adorable nephews
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can cry in any movie...consider yourself pre warned!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you see/read and you're serious about finding someone special for a long term relationship

Don't message me if :
* you're in your 20's...I'm not a cougar, Mrs. Robinson or want to be a teacher
* you're married or separated but still living with your wife!
* you don't know what GTA is, this means you don't live close enough!

Sorry to be harsh...