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39 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:50pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
When drinking
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm on OK Cupid to find my ride home from the airport.

You see, I'd recently flown 11,000 miles over three flights to get home from a month long jaunt through Europe. With nothing but my backpack and a good attitude, I manifested a fantastic trip in just about every regard, and the only time I felt truly alone was when I took the long walk to baggage claim, and out to the taxi stand at Portland International.

I guess I just wanted to see my special someone waiting for me curbside.

A dreamer, a doer, and generally one of the good guys. A basement musician, a a private pilot, marathoner, fisherman. Authentic to a fault, and I can really work a room. Happy to follow, and in a vacuum of leadership, I'm likely to take the helm.

Something like a modern-day Ben Franklin.

I'm liked by many and truly known by just a handful. Those who do will tell you that I can be a bit irascible and self-critical from time to time; they would also say that I'm particularly creative, courageous, and hysterically funny.

I'm not sure if its cool for a dude to consider himself "sexy", but I can dig the feeling. There. I said it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reconciling "You'll find her when you stop looking" with "You gotta put yourself out there..."

Seeking lucrative and exciting opportunities in my professional life.

Developing a deeper relationship with the spiritual.

Learning to enjoy the lonely silence that immediately follows the drop-off.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding possibility.
Generating enrollment.
Getting a sense of what somebody is "listening" for.

Directing, leading, and respectfully massaging circumstances and people in order to provide the desired result.

I'm great at overly communicating.

Good with power tools, your parents, and wilderness survival. At the same time.

I'm good at creating a great time, being spontaneous.

Arguing both sides.
Sauces for pasta.
Word play.
Telling you how I feel while making you laugh.

I'm good at love.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
He's on the verge of needing a haircut.
He's funny, but he might talk too much.
He looks like he really means it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Sunday New York Times with a cup of dark coffee.
Non-fiction audiobooks.
Fireworks displays.
A ripping concert at the Gorge with lightning on the horizon during the peak of the second set.
Movies that stick in your head for a day or two.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A creative project
Interesting conversation
Love and affection
A nice place to live my life
Entertaining distractions
Red wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business opportunities.
Plans for the ranch.
How I should really be taking Wilson for a walk right now.
Finding a screenwriter for life.
Sailboats, airplanes, and global travel.
Why shooting after the buzzer doesn't result in a technical foul.

How long its going to take to find that rare woman who has the mind of a scholar, the patience of a saint, is easy to be with, and eternally thinks we're amazing together.
Lets talk about that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what I do on any other night of the week.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you read enough to be curious.
You're ready for adventure.
You crave intellectual stimulation.
You want the experience of authentic, trusting intimacy.

You're willing to talk on the phone before the first cocktail.