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39 M Portland, OR

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
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When drinking
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
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Has dogs

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My self-summary
A dreamer, a doer, and generally one of the good guys. A basement musician, a a private pilot, marathoner, fisherman. A father. Authentic to a fault, and I can really work a room. Happy to follow, and in a vacuum of leadership, I'm likely to take the helm.

I make my living in the media arts. I'd say I'm liked by many and truly known by just a handful. Those who do will tell you that I can be a bit irascible and self-critical from time to time; they would also say that I'm particularly creative, courageous, and hysterically funny. To that, I'd add kind-hearted, hard-working, and accountable. I'm not sure if its cool for a dude to consider himself "sexy", but I can dig the feeling. There. I said it.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeking lucrative and exciting opportunities in my professional life.
Developing a deeper relationship with the spiritual.
Reconciling "You'll find her when you stop looking" with "You gotta put yourself out there..."
Learning to enjoy the lonely silence that immediately follows the drop-off.
I’m really good at
Finding possibility. Generating enrollment. Getting a sense of what somebody is "listening" for. Directing, leading, and respectfully massaging circumstances and people in order to provide the desired result.

I'm great at overly communicating. Good with power tools, your parents, and wilderness survival. At the same time. I'm good at creating a great time, being spontaneous. Logistics. Arguing both sides. Sauces for pasta. Word play. Entendre. Telling you how I feel while making you laugh.
I'm good at love.
The first things people usually notice about me
He's on the verge of needing a haircut.
He's funny, but he might talk too much.
He looks like he really means it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Sunday New York Times with a cup of dark coffee. Non-fiction audiobooks. Fireworks displays. Broadway. A ripping concert at the Gorge with lightning on the horizon during the peak of the second set. Movies that stick in your head for a day or two.
The six things I could never do without
A creative project
Interesting conversation
Love and affection
A nice place to live my life
Entertaining distractions
Red wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Business opportunities. Plans for the ranch. How I should really be taking Wilson for a walk right now. Finding a screenwriter for life. Sailboats, airplanes, and global travel. Why shooting after the buzzer doesn't result in a technical foul. How long its going to take to find that rare woman who has the mind of a scholar, aspires to have the patience of a saint, is easy to be with, and eternally thinks we're amazing together. Lets talk about that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing what I do on any other night of the week.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you read enough to be curious.
You're ready for adventure, crave intellectual stimulation, want
the experience of authentic, trusting intimacy with another human.
If its not too much trouble to have a quick chat on the phone before the cocktail.