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49 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:48pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Science / Engineering
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sumiso. Soumise, Sottomessa, Submissive

I like people who are SSC. Those who honor service, not degrade it. Those who appreciate the intensity of an honest D/s relationship. Im not necessarily looking for a tpe right now, however if u understand what one is, then we can talk.

Presently I am non monogamous and polyamourous. And if u r not we may not have enough in common to sustain a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im thinking of being a rock star....seriously.

Perfecting my craft. Learning my way. Making my own lightening.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
mixing drinks and not getting hung over. im not sure if one should be proud of that or not, but it sure feels good.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
ive been told its my eyes, and my hair. After that I would think my piercings and tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
the list of books and movies would be vast. im a sci-fi/fantasy fan. sometimes i read really nerdy technical books and manuals. i love studying histories of different countries. you will never ever find me in posession of a crying crack romance novel. id rather gargle with drano first. yuckk . this also goes for romance movies as well, tho i can admit ive seen a few, but the things i enjoy about those movies have nothing to do with the romantic overtones.

I love music. almost all genres, but if i had to pick a favorite it would be rock music hands down. im even finally decided to learn to play my favorite instrument, so im currently taking lessons to play bass.

i am absoultley not a fan of gospel music. i rather read a romance novel than listen to that. sorry if that offends the religious ones, but its not my thing.

I'm a foodie. I love many ethnic dishes. However I recently developed an allergy to shellfish that has rapidly progressed to become life threatening. So I must be extremely careful around any forms of crustaceans. I avoid restaurants that serve these like the plague. Its that or taking a chance with anaphlaxis shock. Steak anyone?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends
my job
my phone
my computer
internet access
an owner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fishing. Drinking tequila. Football.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working mostly. But when I'm not I spend time hanging out with old friends, meeting new friends, fishing, drinking, or wandering around nyc exploring. If im lucky I can make it to a play party where being a bad girl is a good thing. Punish me.....please..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i wanna be a rock star
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
ur vanilla or non vanilla (especially if u know what theses terms mean)
if u understand the dynamics of a D/s or M/s relationship
If u have a ritual
If u know what BDSM stands for
if u have a wuunderful (no thats not a typo) sense of humor
if u promise to never eat shellfish or wear egyptian musk around me
if having fun and laughing urself silly is a daily goal u like to achieve at least twice a day, with no upward limit of course.
if i piqued ur interest at all

*of course this list is just a general guideline and not mandatory at all except for the shellfish and egyptian musk. Dead serious about that.

**To all u wonderful male subbies who feel compelled to contact me, thank u for all ur attention and it's very flattering that u all wish to offer ur service and submission to me, but I'm no Domme, nor do I switch, so please don't ask.