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40 M Sydney, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:45pm
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a masculine 6'6" guy. Lots of fun and pretty chilled. ;)

I am an expressive introvert.

I have no desire to be a father.

I am polyamorous (this means that I treat love as exploratory, trying to experience the many forms it takes).

I don't drink alcohol.

I have undergraduate and masters degrees in English literature.

I am in the process of writing novels (two of them at present)

I don't really relate well to nightclub culture. It's full of energy and yet, curiously enough, really hollow - at least these are my perceptions.

I enjoy energetic conversations that are not hollow, though.

I create my own personal film festivals, which I occasionally share with friends, as well as go out to public ones. At the moment, I am seeing films at the Sydney Film Festival. After that I plan to spend the rest of winter watching Russian films. Brrrr!

Sydney is growing a very strong capitalist culture where the pursuit of money and material possessions are of the highest order. I am not that kind of person. I don't suffer from affluenza and I don't suffer the company of those afflicted by it. So, if you are of this kind please don't contact me.

In a relationship, I don't see myself as the primary breadwinner. I see myself in a relationship with an equal with shared contributions and shared responsibilities.
What I’m doing with my life
1) Researching and writing a Gothic novel.
2) Working
3) Branching out into different social scenes
4) Enjoying excellent cinema
5) Reading great literature
6) Dating on occasion
7) Enjoying life! :D
I’m really good at
1) Writing
2) Thinking in philosophical terms
3) Making life difficult for religious apologists
4) Sounding seductive
5) Conversation
The first things people usually notice about me
1) I guess my height
2) That I sound fairly cultured
3) That I don't have difficulty talking
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I won't lie, I had a lot of fun putting this together. See how many writers, directors and musicians you know of that are on my lists. Probably a lot, but it's all good fun and they have all added to the quality of my existence through their art.

Books ...

Here is a list of my favourite writers, in alphabetical order:

Richard Adams, Clive Barker, Roland Barthes, Samuel Beckett, William Beckford, Ambrose Bierce, Giordano Bruno, Anthony Burgess, William S Burroughs, Joseph Campbell, Albert Camus, Angela Carter, Helene Cixous, Arthur C Clarke, Roald Dahl, Richard Dawkins, Gilles Deleuze, Jacques Derrida, Daniel Dennett, Philip K. Dick, Roslyn Diprose, Terry Eagleton, Brett Easton Ellis, Michael Ende, F Scott Fitzgerald, Michel Foucault, Gunter Grass, Elizabeth Grosz, Felix Guattari, Sam Harris, John Herdman, Christopher Hitchens, James Hogg, Aldous Huxley, Henrik Ibsen, James Joyce, Carl G Jung, Franz Kafka, Julia Kristeva, Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu, Stanislaw Lem, Matthew Lewis, Thomas Mann, Charles Maturin, Haruki Murakami, Vladimir Nabokov, Friedrich Nietzsche, George Orwell, Edgar Allan Poe, Anne Rice, Mary Russo, Marquis de Sade, Edward Said, Sappho, Mary Shelly, Percy Shelley, Susan Sontag, Benedict de Spinoza, Bram Stoker, Koji Suzuki, JRR Tolkien, Horace Walpole, Virginia Woolf, John Wyndham

Films ...

Here is a list of my favourite directors, in alphabetical order (I don't really care if people think I'm a wanker for loving these filmmakers, they are supremely talented):

Wes Anderson, Gregg Araki, Denys Arcand, Dario Argento, Darren Aronofsky, Fernando Arrabal, Hal Ashby, Matthew Barney, Luc Besson, Ingmar Bergman, Bernardo Bertolucci, Catherine Breillat, Peter Brook, Tim Burton, John Cassavetes, Liliana Cavani, Jean Cocteau, the Coen Brothers, Sophia Coppola, Roger Corman, David Cronenberg, Guillermo de Toro, Rainer Werner Fassbinder, Frederico Fellini, Marco Ferreri, Mike Figgis, William Friedkin, Terry Gilliam, Peter Greenaway, Michael Haneke, Werner Herzog, Alfred Hitchcock, Peter Jackson, Derek Jarman, Jim Jarmusch, Jeunet and Caro, Alejandro Jodorowsky, Neil Jordon, Miranda July, Harmony Korine, Stanley Kubrick, Rene Laloux, Fritz Lang, Yorgos Lanthimos, Mike Leigh, Sergio Leone, Ken Loach, Bigas Luna, David Lynch, Guy Maddin, Dusan Makavejev, Julio Medem, Russ Meyer, Jonathan Miller, Mike Mills, Takashi Miike, Hayao Miyazaki, Chris Morris, FW Murnau, Takahashi Nobuyukia, Gaspar Noe, Nagisa Oshima, Francois Ozon, Yasujiro Ozu, Alan Pakula, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Sally Potter, George A Romero, Ken Russell, Ridley Scott, Ulrich Seidl, Takashi Shimizo, Jerzy Skolimowski, David Slade, Steven Soderbergh, Todd Solondz, Alexander Sukurov, Jan Svankmajer, Quentin Tarantino, Andrei Tarkovsky, Bela Tarr, Francois Truffaut, Melvin Van Peebles, Gus Van Sant, Lars Von Trier, John Waters, Andrzej Zulawski

Music ...

Favourite musicians (sample):

Air, Aphex Twin, Beethoven, Bjork, Deep Forest, Enigma, Enya, Jean Michel Jarre, Liszt, Mahler, Massive Attack, Ministry of Sound, Mozart, Sinead O'Connor, Mike Oldfield, Portishead, Sigur Ros, Sting, Vangelis
The six things I could never do without
1. Good conversation
2. My library
3. Ideas to write about
4. Pen, paper ... something to write with/on
5. Friendship
6. Crazy thoughts that induce creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Reimaging Gothic literature
2. How other people think
3. Arrangement of space
4. How every book I read changes me.
On a typical Friday night I am
1) At the movies
2) Out with friends
3) Dating (occasionally)
4) Playing with the cat
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually very sensitive under the veneer of talkativeness and light joviality.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you have a creative sensibility to your way of thinking and/or participating in the world and are not religious.

I tend to be quite introverted, but at the same time very expressive. I don't know how contradictory that sounds, but I guess I would ideally like to connect with intelligent, introverted people best. I think it's just a matter of personality compatability.