I am so ready to actively look for that special someone. I tried marrying someone to complete me . . . that didn't work well. So since our break up four plus year ago, I have worked on 'completing' myself . . . that is now a silly concept to me. I love who I am now, ever evolving and enjoying the journey both inside and out. So I am looking for someone like me, someone that 'fits' that we can relate to each other on deep level because we understand each other.
So who am I? That is a complex question, one, I admit, I am still trying to fully understand, bit of a moving target to boot. First and foremost I am a dad. I love and totally enjoy the responsibility of raising resilient, happy children. Most agree that I am not a 'typical guy' what ever that is? Hmmm I tend to see the world slightly, and I think, wonderfully different, than most others. Big fan of: acceptance, honour, understanding, the fact that all truth is pretty much subjective, and fear being the path to life. I have pretty much conquered most fears, fear has been a long time nemesis, my new nemesis is gravity, or grrrrrrrrravity as I call it. Sigh, but any self description is an exercise in folly, so I guess . . . I guess read my questions and comments and if you feel a kindred soul there, then perhaps we should talk and see.
Having said that, being a voracious reader, I find myself a bit torn about reading the questions on this site, as it strips a lot of the mystery away, and makes those initial moments less enchanting as one discovers a new person as so much can be reveled.
I am a goal setter and achiever. In fact of the 100 most popular goals on the now defunct 43things.com, I have so far done 91 of them. Some of my plans for the future are: to open another business, continue my journey back to fitness, visit my new cousin in Australia, see the Northern Lights and to burst into song in public like in a musical.
So I suppose if we are and 75% or higher match, we should just meet and be done with all the consternation and gate keeping that goes on here. What do you think?
I enjoy planning dates, and giving surprises. Having said that, being a parent and a boss, it’s also a treat to give up control from time to time.
May Cupid's aim be true.