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43 M Cloverdale, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 19
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
How are you doing?

I have been lucky enough have been in the same cool business for 17 years and counting. I am also very fortunate to be the dad of 2 boys, aged 10 and 12 and a daughter who is 6. All of them special in their own little way. I am dad by day, 5 days a week anyway, and boss by night.

Right now I am busy making my new house a home and figuring out how to do laundry. In my free time, I do have some, you will find me: swimming, playing board games, golfing, curling, reading (107 books in 2010), in a forest somewhere . . . I try to get away a couple times a year. Last year it was Paris for 2 weeks at the end of May, that was amazing. Disneyland and Great Wolf Lodge with the kids. I love to go to: concerts (last 3 were Ingrid Michaelson, Jack Johnson and Sara Bareilles), musicals, sporting events (season tickets for the Canucks and Lions), so much more. I think life is simply an amazing journey.

I am a goal setter and achiever. In fact of the 100 most popular goals on I have so far done 91 of them. Some of my plans for the future are: to open another business, continue my journey back to fitness, visit my new cousin in Australia, see the Northern Lights and to burst into song in public like in a musical.

I enjoy planning dates, and giving surprises. Having said that, being a parent and a boss, it’s also a treat to give up control from time to time.

May Cupid's aim be true.
What I’m doing with my life
I am activity raising my three kids, and operating my own business. I am up for just about anything. I enjoy: swimming; hiking; going out for dinner; going to plays or concerts; traveling; home renovation; witty banter . . . so much more, there isn't too many things I'll say 'no' to.
I’m really good at
Quite a few things including modesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my confidence and my, blush, intelligence. I have been told by many, in many different words, that I am an atypical male. I like to think of myself as highly adaptable. My emotional poop is in a group. People often use the word 'comfortable' when in my presence. Oh, I also get told, 'I should write a book' way too often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow, where do I start?
Books (I read between 80 and 110 a year) so we can talk about that.

Movies: I know movies very well, favourites: Babe; Life is Beautiful; Love Me if You Dare; Avatar; The Family Man; Parenthood; Across the Universe; Mamma Mia.

Music: Like most people just about anything. Can't listen to cacophonous metal or twangy country music. I like new songs.

Shows: I like to go out to concerts, musicals, live theatre, sporting events.

As for TV: Discovery Channel, National Geographic Channel, Survivor (can't seem to quit it), True Blood, Newsroom, Game of Thrones (LOVE HB0) Big Bang Theory and SNL (been watching that for 25 years). Ideally I had someone around to do things with instead of watching TV but until then . . .

Food: I could live on red wine, dark chocolate and cheese. But love so many other dishes. I love to cook, but not much so when cooking for myself. In restaurants I almost always order things I haven't tried before.
The six things I could never do without
Well a these are a few of my favourite things:
-My friends and family and the phone that connects me to them
-The internet (information sponge's ultimate tool)
-Daily (at least) showers
-My tools - I like to create things
-Art - beauty in all it's forms
Technically six but oh so much more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything! Usually within the first hour of meeting me people say, 'you think a lot,' or something along those lines. I find this a little funny, because my best thinking happens when I am actively not thinking.

I guess that may not be that helpful so: Human nature, the bright side, what's for dinner, sports, words and meanings, the nature of beauty, the lives of the people I care about, being genuine and honoring myself. Plus whatever happens to catching my interest at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work Friday nights, but that is fun. I'd like to have someone who I can go out with after work. Head into town, rollerblade around the seawall in the moonlight. Hit up Hamburger Marys afterward. Hike up a mountain to a waterfall under the stars. Night owls experience the amazing world more privately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am one of the most open people you will ever meet. I think secrets are kinda silly, but you can totally trust me with them.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are alive. I like messages, would love to hear from you, honestly. No pressure it's just a message on a dating site, not a big deal at all. I will respond, it's the only civil thing to do.