Hi. I'm Tony.
So... I think I'll start with some labels for myself. (Great way to get lots of information out quickly) Pastafarian, Toy Soldier, Browncoat, Humanist/Consequentialist, Gamer, Steampunk, LARPer, Metaphysician, Mad Scientist. If some part of that scared you off, you're probably sane. If not, welcome to the club!
Well, I'm here. And so I should probably ask myself why. In my head, I only see two reasons to do something. One, you believe that doing so will make you a better person. And Two, it's Fun or will lead to Fun. Since I don't particularly find this Fun (yes, always with a capital F) either I believe this will lead to Fun, or I believe it makes me a better person.
I don't think online dating sites are that much more likely to make me a better person. So I must be looking for ways to have Fun. Part of that, I suppose, is meeting new people. I like people. People are fantastic. And I really don't want to end up locked into whatever groups I *happen* to come across, and not ever find myself looking to see what Fun I can have with unknown people.
I am currently in a relationship which, given the strangeness that is me, means that while I am not looking for anyone at the moment does not mean that I am not open to new relationships. (She is poly and I am... strange) The closest label I have for how I am in relationships is what I call "role monogamous": for two-place interpersonal relationships I do not generally seek out relationships which would be redundant. It's actually a good bit more complicated than that, but I am in the surprising situation (for me) of being with someone who fills *multiple* two-place relations at once, so aside from some of the stranger relationships I desire I am not really looking for that right now: mostly just looking for friends. (which are a many-place relation, as far as I am concerned)
Oh, and to get this out of the way: My Doctor is Tom Baker, my favorite Mane6 is Pinkie Pie, Captain Blood (Errol Flynn) is the best pirate, and Caine is my favorite Amberite. If you get at least 3 of these references, awesome! If you get at least 1, we have something to talk about.
One last thing: I am formally invoking Crocker's Rules. I always have them active anyway, but this way everyone knows in advance. :)