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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 14
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for someone to share my passions and interests, and explore new ones. Shared interests, but not necessarily shared opinions. A willingness to try new things, meet new people, and visit new places. A love of food, the outdoors, and family. A desire for intimacy, and personal development. An acceptance that not all questions have absolute answers, but a willingness to question, explore, discuss and openly share opinions.

I hope to meet someone who possesses a sense of self confidence, but also a comfort with ambiguity. As satisfying as it is to find an absolute answer, I have found that life often defies absolutes. Sometimes I find it necessary to get lost to truly find my way.

At heart I am an eternal optimist. Mysteries and challenges hold the allure of discovery and resolution. An apt description of my thought process would be "How do I know what I think till I see what I say"?

What more can I tell you of myself?

My children are a central part of my life. They are continually surprising, inspiring and engaging. I find I learn as much about myself through them as they learn from me. Each day is a new discovery.

Family and friends are very important to me. I am close with my immediate and extended family, though they live predominantly on the east coast. My friends are diverse, traveled, articulate and at times enigmatic.

I love to cook and entertain for friends and acquaintances. The process of pulling together a large meal is cathartic. The realization of new interactions is deeply satisfying.

Outdoors and exercise are a constant. I run and practice yoga regularly. Biking and skiing are seasonal thrills. I would hope to share these passions with a partner.

Reading is the ultimate escape. Whether the New York Times or a good novel, I find reading both stimulating and pacifying.

I love to laugh. Little is more satisfying than an uncontrollable fit of laughter shared with others. I find humor in the mundane and the absurd.

I am romantic and intimate. Trust and openness are fundamental. I would rather discuss doubts and questions than let them fester and grow. I would rather confront issues than have them multiply.

I grew up on the East Coast and lived for many years in Asia. My experiences cultivated in me a deep respect for diverse experiences and viewpoints. I love the challenge of entering the unknown and discovering the strength and flexibility to adapt while maintaining my core values.

I hope to find someone with whom I can enter the unknown and find intimacy and mutual growth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Three years ago I started my own business. It is an environmental company focused on helping people start saving energy and the environment through simple activities they conduct within their home.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New experiences