What can I say? I'm a rather chillaxed (yes that's not a word, deal with it) nerd. Oh yeah, I have tried this site before, didn't like the results, went a little bat-shit on it then promptly rage-quitted. but then again this site was at least an attempt to try to meet women seeing how my work or schooling really isn't providing that opportunity and also being lonely sucks something fierce. So here I am again giving this site another try.
Just so you know; I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or party. I am practically a straightedge. I won't judge anyone who does, these are merely my preferences
So here's the part where I sound like a dick, here are the parts that I don't like and put me off regarding women:
Country, I live in a rural very southern heavily republican area so some variety would be nice.
Religion or an over-devotion to god. I'm not a religious man but I still believe in god, should your beliefs differ that's just fine I'm not looking for a woman who sees god/religion as a necessity in their life.
Sports, as your typical "not-so-typical" guy I tend to dislike anything that is a norm within our society which involves sports, it's dumb and athletes get paid far too much to be watched.
YOLO.... just no, NONE OF THAT.... SHAME ON YOU
Here's a recent one, women who put down that they're single but put down on their profile that they're in a relationship. I feel almost lied to seeing that. If I were looking for friends specifically I'd be on Facebook (not that I'm not already on Facebook). Do not mistake me If I'm messaging you then I am interested in friendship that might possibly go into something more than that but for sanity's sake I'm not holding my breath on each woman I message, moving on.
Hmmmm I think that's about it.
I feel as though I should add more side-notes:
I suppose I should add things that I like on a girl.
Tattoos, I've never had any myself, although it's quite enticing, but I enjoy seeing them on other people, same goes for piercings.
Alternate colored hair.... Pretty much anything that stands out. I see A LOT of profiles on here so seeing something out of the ordinary intrigues me. That being said a girl can have none of those things and I can still find her attractive.I have my preferences but I am by no means picky... Ok perhaps a little picky.
Also common ground is a bit of a godsend to me. I'm not the best at small talk and can quickly drop a conversation if I've nothing else to talk about. It's something I'd like to work on in the future however I still find it difficult especially online, given that there's no face to face interaction, and it's very easy to get swamped by a busy schedule and accidentally lose contact with someone cool. But that being the case do you simply send more messages to try and maintain connection because sometimes it can be hard to tell whether a person is just busy or just not interested-and oh my have I started rambling.. terribly sorry for that lol