What am I doing in this site.. looking for someone, like you are.. I am open to many things, I try to keep myself flexible, and I am willing to compromise many things, as long as it's worth it.. as you might have found out by now, there are no Princes on white horses out there, and neither do I expect a Princess.. we are just human beings, with our shortcomings and deficiencies, but maybe these imperfections are the salt and pepper in a relationship. There is no magic recipe for success, and sometimes you go against your logic.. for many people, the heart takes over.. and then, maybe, we make mistakes we later regret.. maybe not, if we're lucky.. Like the old saying goes, it's not the destination, it's the journey that counts.. in spite of this, I am still looking for my harbor.. life is too good not to be shared..
What I consider basic ingredients are, good communication, which should be effortless and smooth like a flow, the ability to feel, show and share emotions, I cannot imagine a life without passion. In real life, both partners must equally work to make the best of a relationship, there is no such thing as a perfect other half, and we should all make our adjustments and compromises, as long as they don't violate our basic principles, beliefs, and way of life. There have to be common interests, love is not enough, although love can go a long way..
Sophistication, depth of personality, education, and intelligence in a woman are a turn on for me. I am a citizen of the world, so you must have some knowledge about the planet we live in, and appreciate quality in every aspect of life. Although not an artist, I admire and appreciate every form of art... well, most forms :).. Learning and expanding my personality and experiences is another personal goal.. I am looking for a dreamer but one who has her feet on the ground. Yes, it's possible.. When there is hope and dreaming, there is a better tomorrow. Meanwhile, we can all create our little Edens, just by taking notice and appreciating the small things, what we do have, the everyday moments, and each other.. easier said than done, we are always in a quest for some undefined distant chimera that will make everything alright, and we miss the here and now. And most importantly, the person next to us. Physical appearance is important, to the extend that there has to be a certain attraction. If one has a problem in real life because of this, they will also have a problem here.. instant rejection on the first date is not a pleasant experience.It's not true what people say and want, that one should not carry 'baggage', because what we are today, our self, our personality, is the sum of all our experiences, memories, and emotions we had in the past. ... you cannot delete your memories,, only Alzheimer's can :) . To err is human, and that's how we learn, from our mistakes and misfortunes. The trick is to look forward and live in the present and the future, using the experiences from the past to your benefit. Learn from your mistakes.
Some favorite quotes will speak on my behalf :
Work to live.
Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
The most important sex organ is the brain.
No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. Train your eyes.
Thanks Good Luck :)