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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:46am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I am a typical male with atypical tendencies. I totally love baseball and college basketball, but also love the symphony. I am sexually aggressive, but a Southern gent who knows how to respect a woman. I'm a wallflower at a concert, but put me on a dance floor and I'll shake my ass with you.

I'm looking for a partner in crime that understands what it means to be in an open relationship. A teetotaler will not do as I do like to have a bourbon or two on the rocks and enjoy myself. Life in moderation is my motto - keep it under control and hurt no one including yourself and all is well.

I am an athletic guy that is looking to push more boundaries in that realm. Wanna take a bike ride around the city? Awesome - I'm down rain or shine. Wanna teach me something new - great! Except slacklining - I just don't get it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently trying to design something positive from a negative change in my work life. Trying to travel and have as much fun as possible in my personal life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
all the things that will never get me anywhere in life.

stupid movie trivia
whistling random tunes
ping pong
parallel parking
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I look kinda mean? Is it the facial hair or stern eye brows? You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ok, current thoughts in 3's

Godfather II
The Good, The Bad & The Ugly
The Fifth Element

Game of Thrones
Bob's Burgers
Penny Dreadful (I have a serious thing for Eva Green)

Music: (only three is tough)
The Knife
Pink Floyd
Neutral Milk Hotel

German "cuisine"
Malaysian (Malay Satay Hut!!!)
Southern cookin' (I'm from KY)

Books: (last read)
Melmoth the Wanderer
The Maddaddam Trilogy
Japan at War: An Oral History
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
comfortable silence, sex, bourbon, music, rhapsody8, man's best friend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what they are going to do to The Canterbury and where should I call my drinking hole until then. Right now Neighbor Lady is in the lead!

UPDATE: Canterbury is a lame bro-heavy joint now - fucking sad. Harry's Bar seems to do the trick for now. Anybody tried Montana? Wanna take me there? ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Summer softball with my lady rhapsody8 usually precluded and concluded with cheap drinks at Leny's. Well, this is the MO for another couple of weeks at least.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I had sex with OKC's mom.
You should message me if
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you enjoy the slow seduction between two strangers getting to know each other.