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58 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:44pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an intelligent, passionate and well-rounded person who marches to the beat of a different drummer. My career path has been unconventional, diverse and interesting... science teacher, real estate broker, mortgage lender, and physician (graduated medical school when I was 46 yrs old but not currently practicing... long story); I'm even a massage therapist! Currently I'm pursuing my lifelong passion and dream of being a visual artist. I'm sensitive, affectionate and supportive as well as confident, secure and independent; honest, kind and compassionate but also strong and masculine; well educated but very down-to-earth; very youthful yet mature and sophisticated. I have a great sense of humor and usually have a smile on my face. I love the arts, all types of good food and wine, most genres of music, traveling (US; Canada, where I was born; Italy, where parents were born; Argentina; Brazil; Mexico; Jamaica... hope to visit many more in the future). I enjoy spending time with family and friends but also cherish my alone time. I try to go to the gym 4-6 days/week (yoga, "boot-camp" water aerobics, etc.). I love trying new things and am always open to new experiences and challenges. For me, life is about the journey not the destination... and it's been one amazing journey so far!
I'd like to meet someone who is attractive both inside and out. Looks are what initially attracts me to a woman but it's what is inside that makes me want to take it further. I'm looking for someone intelligent, kind, caring, feminine and not materialistic who has a real joie de vivre; someone who wants a relationship based on mutual respect, honesty and trust. I believe in love, romance and passion and have refused to settle for anything less; I'm an eternal optimist and still believe that I will find the perfect person for me one day.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it proactively!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I put my mind to... and I'm really humble too! LOL!
Actually, I'm really good with people... helping, inspiring and motivating them, and making them comfortable and at ease around me... I've often been told that I have a calming effect on people; I also make an amazing Irish Cream Cheesecake and Tiramisu; and I've been told that I'm a good kisser. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hard to say what they notice first but I've been complimented on my eyes (the color is unique... yellow-green) and my smile. Why don't you let me know what you noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These days I mostly read art related materials and random articles that catch my attention... I love learning new stuff! I used to be a big fan of Kurt Vonnegut years ago. Comedy is my favorite genre of movies but I also like drama and action movies... not a big fan of horror movies. TV shows I like include The Daily Show (John Stewart), The Colbert Report (Steven Colbert), Southpark, Family Guy, Revolution, CNN/news programs. I probably shouldn't admit it, but I also like the HBO show Girls. LOL! I also enjoy watching the Eagles during football season and boxing. I listen to all types of music but mostly alt/indie rock these days... fav radio station: 104.5, fav band: Radiohead. Italian cuisine is my favorite but I eat/enjoy all types of food... I love trying new and different foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People I love
Great food
Dreams and Aspirations
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... everything... life, the world, the universe, etc... and art.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to get to the 6PM yoga class at my gym on most Fridays. After that, no set routine... sometimes I'm with friends hanging out in my neighborhood (East Passyunk Square/South Philly), CC, Old City or Northern Liberties; sometimes just hanging out at home watching TV or making art.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... wouldn't be private anymore if I put on here.
You should message me if
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... you're looking for a good guy who is interesting and fun to be with.