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40 M San Jose, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intelligent, confident, witty, self-deprecating, considerate, honest, and a militant rationalist. Never married, no kids, 1 cat, very slight European accent (me, not the cat… the cat is a native English-speaker).

I don't club, and I'm not big on bars (dive bars can be ok once in a while). I also don’t watch a lot of TV, though I do watch a good amount of movies... Aaand that's where I'm going to leave it for now... I'll come back to this part once the rest of this gigantic profile is filled out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What AM I doing with my life? I... am teaching Electronics & Fabrication, Intro To Engineering, and Industrial Design at a SJ high school.

I freelance part-time as an Industrial Design consultant, and moonlight as a Curriculum Developer for companies teaching Mechanical Engineering to gifted children.

Recently I've started getting into white-water rafting, and now I'm sort of obsessed with it, raising my Micromorts (bonus points if you know what that is) on an almost weekly basis.

Then there's music... It's hard to call it a hobby; writing music has always just been a part of my life. It's mostly heavy and melodic, and always instrumental.

I have a load of various other hobbies and interests, but most of them are rooted in music, technology, and combat sports (kickboxing, jujitsu, robotic combat... ... chess :P).

Mostly I just love designing, problem-solving, and working with my hands. Here's some footage and stills of a few of the things I've built, all packed into a "super-professional" Windows Movie Maker video :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Haha, oh good - the bragging section. Let's see...

Recently I learned that a river can keep you from breathing while it tries to steal your belongings. I am really good at not letting it do either. :)

I can design, build, or fix almost anything. And if I can't fix it, I can at least finish breaking it for you.

I'm also told that I'm a talented musician, but... you tell me.
Fast & Heavy:
Slow & Soft:
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... are probably the least interesting things about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A Brief History Of Everything - K. Wilber
Man And His Symbols - K. Jung

The Usual Suspects

Liquid Tension Experiment
Infected Mushroom

Greek, Chinese, Indian, Thai, Russian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, tools, music, sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Behavioral psychology, logic, politics, human evolution, technology, music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... smoking and sometimes drinking, laughing, hanging with people, writing music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... isn't private enough to be interesting.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... normalcy and conventional thinking bore you.
... TV/Cable isn't where you get your news.
... you like guys who over-use punctuation.