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AlessandraF

22 / F / Straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi, my name is Ali (short for Alessandra). I'm complex, passionate, and human. And a pretty cool lady.

I have BA in Theatre Arts with an emphasis in acting. I'm interested in a job in politics, though not as a politician myself.

If you know about personality types, I'm an INFJ, with some ENFJ tendencies. When I tell people I'm introverted, they rarely believe me. Trust me, I'm introverted.

If you're in the mood for further stalking, you can find me on tumblr here. I haven't been updating much lately, but it's still pretty informative. If you like Doctor Who or Marina and the Diamonds, you're in for a treat.
What I’m doing with my life
In November, I finished volunteering full-time for six months as a Field Organizing Fellow with Organizing for America (President Obama's grassroots campaign). I'm about to start up as an intern for Senator Merkley in his Portland office, and I'm currently looking for a paying, part-time job elsewhere.
I’m really good at
Lots of things. But I'm not so good at describing them. So here's a short list of things I may or may not be really good at:
-Singing
-Inspiring folks
-Writing things as they sound in my mind
-Being a friend to cats
-Being a friend to humans
-Teaching people how to do stuff
-Making grilled cheese
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The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm funny - at least, in person. People tend to start laughing within five minutes of meeting me. That's not to say that I'm some kind of class clown (well, not always!), I just like to make people smile and laugh.

People probably also notice other things, but I don't know what they are! Mostly that I'm friendly, I guess, and an individual, and very genuine. Over the past year I've learned that I'm really the most comfortable when I'm honest with myself and with others, and I think I'm a lot better for it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books:
Hunger Games trilogy, Divergent trilogy, Harry Potter series, Anything by Tennessee Williams
As You Like It and Richard III by William Shakespeare (Basically most Shakespearean plays, though I'm not a fan of R&J or Comedy of Errors.)
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley, Lucas by Kevin Brooks

Favorite movies:
Hunger Games, The Fall, Howl's Moving Castle, Up, Tangled, Good Will Hunting, Moonrise Kingdom, Once, Another Earth, Anastasia, Harry Potter series, Star Wars
Various superhero movies
Disney

Favorite TV Shows (top tier - I'll admit I watch a fair bit of TV):
Doctor Who, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Arrested Development, Parks and Recreation, The West Wing, Dexter, Portlandia, House, Bones, Game of Thrones, The Newsroom, Sherlock, Girls, The Mentalist, Go On, New Girl, The Office
(The above is in no particular order. Really. Except Doctor Who is #1 these days.)

Music:
Marina and the Diamonds, The Naked and Famous, OK Go, Jinja Safari (look them up, srsly), Florence and the Machine, Death Cab for Cutie, Coldplay, Spoon, Ellie Goulding, Sara Bareilles, The National, Jimmy Eat World, Mika, Vampire Weekend,
lots of people/bands who don't make top tier,
and lots of excellent older bands that I inherited from my parents.

Food:
Salad with thousand island dressing, Bacon cheeseburgers, Cheesecake, Key lime pie, Grapes, Oranges, Strawberries, raspberries, chocolate, breakfast food, chicken makhani, American Chinese food
The six things I could never do without
Water, Shelter, Food, Friends, Family, hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how nice kittens are, what I want to do for the rest of my life, whether or not it's worth it to go through the trouble of making a fresh fruit salad
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical Friday night. It could range anywhere from sitting at home alone watching TV/reading a book, going to a movie with a friend, seeing a concert, or endless other possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've only ever had one relationship. For some reason I've always had serious trouble getting to the "you like me, I like you, so we should date" level of relationships. I would like to get better acquainted with the process.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 18–28
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You think I'm cool, you share interests with me, or you just want to get to know me more!

I also put a lot of stock in chemistry on the first impression, so if you've read this far and you think we'd get along, I'd love to see if I agree!