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41 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:39am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First time ever on any kind of dating site. Incredibly busy during last three years as I travel a lot and deal with distressed business. My sister and nephews are threatening with putting an ad, sending my résumé to The Bachelor or simply asking one of their friends divorced moms to set me up. But in all seriousness, I would like to settle down, enjoy a stable relationship and have kids (sooner than later). I enjoy my nephews and niece so much that's cant imagine having my own.
What I’m doing with my life
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Real estate developer. Aspiring hotel owner. I supervise hundreds of people and really worry everyday that they will have a job next year. Thankfully things are looking great and will create more opportunities for others to get ahead. Deeply spiritual, big believer in karma and on fragility of what we have and enjoy. I think that at a spiritual and work level, I have my stuff together. My dating and relationship life is more like Iraq (mess)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at finishing what I start. Also can run a mean mile.
I'm good a rationalizing things and explaining issues. Frustrated professor inside of me.

Very patient with kids. Habilitation I never thought I had. Decent driver, skier, swimmer.

Passable cook for a single man!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile, dimples (for which there is no word in Spanish nor Italian )
Accent - languages
Sense of humor. I don't take myself overly seriously
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Vargas Llosa, Gabo Marquez, Steige Larsson, Junot Diaz, Italo Calvino, Phillip Roth, Christopher Reich, Greg Iles, Albert Camus, Hemingway, Neruda, Isabel Allende, Dante, Boccacio

Pulp Fiction, Life of Pi, Pixar movies, Gladiator, Castaway, Dr Zhivago, Saving Private Ryan, Full Metal Jacket, Aviator, Bettlejuice, Almodovars, Hidden Dragon, crouching tiger, Tears from the Sun, In the name of the Father, U-571, Invictus, Victory, Rocky, The Contender, Amadeus, Bond movies

Pink Floyd, Lucio Dalla, Eagles, Maroon Five, Coldplay, Jimmie Hendrix, Carlos Santana, Kino, Eros Rammazoti, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Maceo Parker, Antonio Jobim, Miguel Bose, Juan Luis Guerra
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improving myself, eternal life ;-)
Responsibilities, having a family
Hypothetical scenarios
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends or on a plane
I need to get a life. Less work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate being alone, yet I do a damn good job at it AND a lady on OKC invited me to a drink not knowing she lives on the floor below me!
You should message me if
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Interesting, smart, funny and don't mind listening to a bit of a accent. Looking for serious partner for the Long term.