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AlexCD

24 / F / Bisexual / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:48pm
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
24.

I'm from Long Island but I usually say Strong Island to sound edgier.

I want to travel to all the continents while I'm able.

"I hate writing. I love having written." -- Dorothy Parker

I really like hip hop so you should at least be able to tolerate it.
(*edit: I know and regularly think about "problems" or "flaws" in contemporary mainstream hip hop but divorced of larger context/critical thinking, rap-bashing is useless.)

I am known to go on Wikipedia binges.

Laughter is like a natural painkiller. I love memes and random Internet comedy. I like comedy in general.

I used to think being a realist meant being an pessimist, given the sheer number of how many sucky things there are in the world. I'm slowly changing that frame of mind. I'm starting to realize that true happiness is a choice, regardless of external circumstances. This is a very freeing notion for me.

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I love this quote:
“The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things in life like love, meaning, motivation, it implies they are sitting behind a tree or under a rock. The most successful people in life recognize, that in life they create their own love, they manufacture their own meaning, they generate their own motivation. For me, I am driven by two main philosophies, know more today about the world than I knew yesterday. And lessen the suffering of others. You'd be surprised how far that gets you."

- Neil deGrasse Tyson

I'm not impressed, nor do I think it's cute, sexy, or, different, when people describes themselves sincerely as "nerds." Why?

"…nerds...are allowed to be unironically enthusiastic about stuff… Nerds are allowed to love stuff, like jump-up-and-down-in-the-chair-can’t-control-yourself love it. ...when people call people nerds, mostly what they’re saying is ‘you like stuff.’ Which is just not a good insult at all. Like, ‘you are too enthusiastic about the miracle of human consciousness’.”
― John Green
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to have fun and be a good person while planning/building my career and attempting to improve my self-discipline.
I’m really good at
witticisms, recalling song lyrics and quoting them in apt situations, grammar and punctuation, trivia about pop culture especially from the TRL era
The first things people usually notice about me
Physical attributes: "nice smile, nice teeth, nice hair, nice butt."

I get told a lot that I have "nice" voice, whatever that means.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: White Oleander by Janet Fitch

Movies: Mean Girls. Coming to America. Raising Victor Vargas.

TV Shows: I watch more YouTube than I watch TV. Favs of all time include The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air and the old What Not to Wear.

Music: I love music so much it's really hard to talk about favorites here! As far as contemporary music goes, Drake, J. Cole, Amy Winehouse, Gnarls Barkley, random indie pop (like Gotye, M83, Fun.). Back in the day favs include Celia Cruz and Bob Marley and 90s/early 2000s R&B.
WhoSampled is a great website for anyone as fascinated by sampling/covers/remixes as I am.

Food: Tasty
The six things I could never do without
-Water
-The Internet
-Family
-Friends
-Quiet time for meditation/reflection
-*******
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, death
Sexuality
Social inequality and injustices
How to increase the joy in my life
God, spirituality, religion, agnosticism (Does religion help or hurt spirituality?)
Where I would like to be, how I can get there, what's standing in my way
Racism, sexism, other -isms and -phobias
Intersectionality
Am I being the best "me" I can possibly be?
On a typical Friday night I am
quiet night at home winding down with a movie or a marathon of one series (most recently completed: Girls)
or fun times with friends out and about
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really bad with directions
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
I viewed your profile and didn't say anything and that annoyed you because you wish I did.

If you want to.

If you're cool with the fact that I may immediately ask you to g-chat because this site sometimes just gives me the creeps and I prefer that interface better. Okay fine I just miss AOL Instant Messenger.