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AlexInLa79

35 Woodland Hills, CA Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Nature, Dancing, Thinking.

I'm a political leftist, I'm deeply spiritual in my own way, and I'm all about Nature. Then again, I like driving fast, enjoy a good sound system, am thankful for all the high tech modern conveniences that make our lives so easy (although not always)

I believe that love is found, I believe that love is built. I like an attractive woman, but I know that the prettiest woman is the one that I love. I've got plenty of struggles and goals. I'm far from perfect, but I'm real. I'm relationship oriented - fun, communicative, supportive, yada yada.

I'm not mainstream. I love life but think that the world is in a very bad state. I believe that if you don't agree, then you're not paying attention (but I love it when people can get me to change my mind). I also know I contribute to the bigger problems. That's why I'm trying to do what I can to help the world I live in. I find this challenging and, honestly, a lot easier to think about than to do. The division between human societies/cultures and nature is crucial to me. I seek the reintegration of humans and non-human life, and I believe that bringing nature back into urban areas is my way of promoting this process. Basically I'm all about the re-greening of cities for the practical and psychological benefits of healthy human-nature relationships...

... Making a living based upon this ethic isn't coming easy, but I'm committed. I have a small landscaping business in which I focus on native and edible plants. I'm returning to school to improve my body of knowledge. (The undergrad in psychology and the MA in Environmental social science have helped make me who I am, but I'm now moving in a new professional direction). I dream about adding a non-profit aspect to my business at some point to promote the environmental-social values that are important to me. When I'm old I want to look back and say I did what I could to help this world, and I want to leave my own little legacy about how to Love Life and Nurture Nature - An I-Sight ethic for these days and times...

But really... Nature, thought, dance, reggae, struggle and triumph some it up

btw, I like it when women are thoughtful and expressive!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing (at least sometimes)
Talking about philosophical and emotional issues
Being there when someone needs
Writing, especially essays, (at least I hope)
Landscaping
Paying attention to where I am when I'm trailblazing through the wilderness and being conscious of the setting sun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not sure I'm eager to know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction: Harry Potters, Lord Of The Rings, Cloudsplitter, Rule of the Bone, East of Eden, Grapes of Wrath, Aztec, Lamb: the Story of Christ as Told by His Best Friend Biff, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Quicksilver, Way of The Peaceful Warrior, Life of Pi...

Nonfiction Authors: Derrick Jensen, Michael Pollan, Raj Patel, George Sessions, Warwick Fox, Ken McLoud, Bill McKibben, Theodore Roszak, Biil Bryson...

Movies: The new Karate Kid, Pulp Fiction, Thunderheart, The Last Temptation of Christ, The Harry Potters, Children of Men, Hero, Wedding Crashers, Dances with Wolves, Maverick, Dazed and Confused, Harold and Kumar... Either fun or meaningful (I'm sick of how so many Hollywood movies dissolve into plotless action)

Music: Reggae. Not just the old classic stuff, but the new era of amazing upbeat conscious reggae. I'm not really into popular American music, not against it though. I also love old acoustic blues, bluegrass, some folk, West and North African traditional music, Indian sitar stuff. Some hiphop, some funk. But really, I love conscious dancehall passionately.
-These days I'm also loving Mayer Hawthorne, Modest Mouse, Aloe Blacc, Kanaan, and Sean Heyes!

I love food, but I'm not a foodie. I eat anything depending on my mood that day. I'm healthy, but I let my self indulge too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reggae/Dancing
Meaningful conversations
The sight and sound of birds
Fruits, veggies, and working out
Periodic bad food
My good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(Pre-note: why women who seem to have very little in common with me often rate me well on this site. This isn't an ego thing - trust me - but it's interesting).

People and interpersonal dynamics. I think about why people are the way they are - both individually and socially. I think about how the human mind works, especially mine.

I wonder why music and dance is enjoyable. It fascinates me that we have these physiological bodies (and minds) that respond so strongly and innately to certain concoctions of sounds. How and why did we evolve that way? Isn't that odd?

I think about social, political and environmental issues a lot, and what the root causes of such issues are. And how are we going to resolve the big problems we face?

The NBA (guilty pleasure).

Rasta thought
Buddhist thought
Feminist thought
Ecopsychology and Deep Ecology thought
Politically leftist thought
...all summed up in what I call "I-Sight" thought. Ask me about it, it's what I'm about, at least what I'm trying to be about...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night isn't such a big deal for me. Going out can be good. Chilling at home, with friends or alone, can be just as good.

One of the best reggae clubs I've been too is actually here in LA and goes off every Wednesday. I'll take a good Wednesday over Friday anytime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd like to have a drink on our first meet up, whatever we do
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You got through my profile and you want to.
You like reggae and you want to go dancing
I don't know, you tell me why you should message me.

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