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27 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I work a lot, and as such don't often get a chance to meet new people, especially people outside the midtown theater crowd.

- I love to travel, both for work and personal exploration, and can often be found with a camera in my hand.

- I've lived in NYC for 9 years now and have a hard time imagining living anywhere else. Close, runner-up cities include: Montreal, Chicago, San Francisco, Denver, Austin, and Memphis.

- I enjoy getting tattooed (though I only have three, due to will-power) and pierced (9 of those...less will-power...)

- I drink coffee. A lot of it.

- I love camping, hiking, SCUBA diving, and rock climbing...and don't do any of those activities nearly enough.

- I've planned out a 40-day motorcycle journey through Europe...but have failed to find the time to actually DO it...
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a sound designer working primarily in theater but also in other forms of live performance - live music, dance, etc. My work is my passion and I consider myself very lucky to be doing what I love. Too few people get to explore their passion and make it their living.

...and thankfully I love it. There's no other reason to work the hours that I do.
I’m really good at
Using ellipses....really good at that. I possess a decently quick wit and am a good conversationalist. Semantics, good at those too.

I can do the worm.

I'm NOT good at compartmentalizing relationships the way OKCupid would like me to. Too often, I'll answer a question with the "most right" answer, but there is always a grey area - different situations and different people would influence those answers in different directions. Does that make sense? Basically, if I were given a dollar every time I clicked "somewhat important"....well, I'd be rich.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the beard and then the septum piercing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Dream of Perpetual Motion by Dexter Palmer, Life by Keith Richards, Tenth of December by George Saunders. Fragile Things by Neil Gaiman. Currently: This Is Your Brain On Music by Daniel Levitin and The Brooklyn Follies by Paul Auster. Next up: IQ84 by Murakami. Magazines: Wired, GQ, American Photo, and Inked.

Movies/TV: I'm a sucker for a romantic comedy - Crazy Stupid Love? I mean, c'mon, so great. TV shows that have a more cinematic arc to them (True Blood, LOST, Fringe, American Horror Story) though one-stop laughs are totally acceptable too - Family Guy!

Food... I love sushi, really good steaks, and chocolate...but those are the special occasion foods. I enjoy eating healthy and how eating healthy makes me feel. Salads, noodles, Westerly Market on 54th and 8th.

Music. Current trends are CHVRCHES, alt-J, Queens of the Stone Age, NIN, Neko Case, Birdy, Childish Gambino (trying to get into the new album). The constants in my life: Ani Difranco, Elliott Smith, punk (primarily Clash and the like, but the newer stuff has a place too)

Songs currently on repeat in my life:
Unworry - Ani Difranco
Bloodflow - alt-J
What Sarah Said - Death Cab
Open - Rhye
The six things I could never do without
1. iPhone
2. Sunglasses
3. Good food/wine/coffee/conversations
4. Bike lanes.
5. Travel and exploration
6. A camera
Runner Up: XKCD
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Efficiency: how to streamline systems, economy of movement. Blame an over-active left side of my brain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working till 11p, then it's time to go out!

...Or it's time to go home and keep doing work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really really enjoy bad pop music. Especially in the morning, pre-coffee.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...I don't come off as a prick? Not really sure how to answer this one...

If the only combination better than warm molten chocolate cake and a big red warm molten chocolate cake and a good whiskey.