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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 7, 2014
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello! I am dedicated to making life for all humans, myself included, healthier, more enjoyable, and more satisfying. I have trained in several healing arts. I have become a somatic clinical psychologist specializing in working with extremely distressed children,adults, and families integrating traditional psychotherapy with body-oriented approaches including Reichian orgone energy therapy, craniosacral therapy,Rosen Bodywork; nutrition, meditation, and social/environmental activism. I practice Buddhist meditation, Tantric/vinyassa yoga, and tai ch'i , play the drums, eat an almost vegan diet with the occasional detour in non-vegetarian foods. I am a social/environmental activist, and I am working on finishing writing a book.
Some of my inspirations are: Buddha, Dalai Lama, Ghandi, M.L.King,Van Gogh, Philip K.Dick, Shakespeare, J.Garcia, Pollock, Alan Moore, Wilhelm Reich, Celine, Hunter Thompson, Brando, Kevin Spacey,Streep, Lenny Bruce, Robin Williams, Hakuin, Shantideva, Lao Tsu, Jerry, Jimi,Janis, and Jim, Lennon, Pete Townshend, E.C., Van the Man, I will go on in person

I do not assume the sun will come up tomorrow for me or for any of us...take the time to enjoy living now!

Note: I am looking for safe, sane, adventurous bisexual women for safe, sane, respectful experiences with my bisexual girlfriend. I put single in my profile so that I do not get any couples looking for other couples

See you soon, hopefully!


P.S. We do not treat any sexual experience casually. However, if there is mutual sexual attraction, I believe there is no reason not to enjoy it as an essential part of a healthy life and just because it is so much fun!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a native New Yorker relocated back to the Upper East Side after many years in California and Florida...a poet, psychologist, craniosacral therapist, master massage therapist and therapeutic bodyworker, practitioner of Tai ch'i, yoga, Tantra, drummer, and social/political activist, improvisational actor, and budding stand-up comedian. I am also working on a novel form of autobiography, outlining my solution to the biggest threat to the survival of our species: us. In addition to regular office practice, I also have a therapeutic house call practice offering in-home psychotherapy and therapeutic bodywork.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to people with interest and respect, expressing myself, therapeutic and intimate touch/massage, being direct and honest, passionate kissing, traveling anywhere, taking care of you and me equally, allowing space and providing closeness
The first things people usually notice about me
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the quality of my eye contact
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything that tastes good to me...

Balanced with excellent nutrition including fresh, organic foods as often as possible...mostly vegetables, some seafood

Philip K. Dick books, Wilhelm Reich, poetry,Shakespeare, Borges,Calvino, Eco, Larry Niven, Asimov

Jerry Garcia, Miles Davis, Coltrane, Bird, Diz, Jimi Hendrix, Jim and Van Morrison, Clapton, Clash, Pink Floyd, Pete Townsend,

2001, Baron Munchausen, NYPD Blue, Millenium, Brazil, Fisher King, Breaking Bad, Revolution, Walking Dead
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Striving to feel ove and compassion for all living species
my sense of humor
Clean air and water
experiences with Nature and music
meditation/tai Ch'i/yoga/Tantra
Physical and emotional intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to inspire myself and other humans to take better care of themselves, other humans, and the other living beings on this planet which we share with them

trying not to think too much
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no typical nights or days for me...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me anything in person...the Internet is forever.
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting honesty, sensuality, spirituality, humor, and imperfection incarnate

You know what a Tantric partner is...or want to!