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Alexbc1

21 M Castro Valley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Before you look down any further, I just want to let you know that I am looking for a relationship of some sort. A simple, happy, relationship where my partner is also like my friend. So for goodness sake, if you message me with good intentions, that's fine, but don't lead me on and get bored after a day, or give me any nasty surprises. I'm losing patience for that and it's rude. That aside... let's proceed with the self-summary!

I have simple needs, and simple desires. I'm not very materialistic, so don't think you can win me over with a bunch of gifts, or visa versa, because that won't work on me, and I believe a good relationship is about bringing the best of what you can offer out through a genuine emotional connection. I'm all for going out and hanging out doing stuff and having fun, but also know I'm a home body by nature, so if you are too, and would like to just chill around and play games, watch stuff on t.v. (or computer), that would be the bomb! I'm also very tolerant of people of all stripes of life, it's the political, psychological, and religious extremes that get to me. If something is bothering you, I would like to talk things out in a civil and calm manner, not play mind games or have an emotional fit. Iv'e grown less tolerant of that over time.. kind of ironic right?

So without giving away TOO MUCH about myself without having any actual conversation, I'm like a giant kid when I'm in a good mood, I'm a damn good listener to count on if you are having troubles you need to get off your chest, and I value honesty, integrity, and faithfulness above many things. Corny yes, but how else can I word it?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm going to School at Las Positas with a sociology major (yes yes laugh get it out of your system). I hope to do something along the lines of becoming a social worker in the long run. Call me cheesy, but I really want to do something with my life that involves helping people!
I’m really good at
I find I have a capacity to listen to people when something is eating away at them and they need someone they can trust to talk to. It's never an inconvenience to me, I actually enjoy it, and try to offer advice that is more or less practical. Even if it something totally off the wall, I could care less how weird it is. I just want those I care for to find some sort of peace with themselves.

Another thing, even though I stress that I don't care much for doing sports activities, I friggin love swimming more than any other activity! Joining a water polo team or something would take the fun right out of it! And I swam in the Trinity River till my head hurt from the cold. I needed to get clean, but I didn't wanna take another shower after hauling wood all day. River, ocean, lake, pool (non public pool), it's all good!
The first things people usually notice about me
That they say I look familiar, even though I have no idea who they are, I just have a one of those faces. That and my eccentric nature, and I suck at small talk.

And my eyebrows for some reason..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Does the national geographic count?

Movies: I love dumb movies, sci-fi, horror, things of the like. Also historical type films, but in reality, there isn't a movie I couldn't enjoy with the right company. Iv'e been to, and enjoyed movies I never thought I could because of the people I was with!.

Shows: This and that.

Music: I listen to music as a spur of the moment sort of thing, but I do enjoy older classics like Pink Floyd, ACDC, some ZZ Top, and those goodies. I'm also partial to jazz and classical. And I could probably go on all day about good movie soundtracks.

Food: I hate asparagus and a number of condiments like wasabi and horse radish.. bleck.
The six things I could never do without
Hygene, family, friends, my pc, a home, and a quiet place to drain away the day's chaos.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, skyping and playing games with friends. Boring yes, but it's more or less a default until something more exciting comes along. I'm always happy to go out with friends, family, significant other, or whomever wants my company!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't mind someone who isn't full blown dominant alpha male, I think that is dumb, over rated, and I'm too goofy and carefree to be that kind of guy. I'll look at a potential significant other as someone to be good friends with, not control a part of their lives. Screw that masculine bullshit that girly girls want. Other than that, I'm a nice, peaceful, playful person who would like to get to know who you are :) And please for the love of all that is good in this world, if you can start a conversation without just saying 'hey' or 'hi' or 'what's up' I would be eternally grateful. Likewise, I will try and be creative with my greetings as best I can.

Ok, my bitchy rant is over! :P